I have them too! I tried to get an IUD but I just can’t justify paying that and I am no good at getting people to listen to my complaints about how what they’re doing is wrong. My pills are free, which is nice, but after 7 years of the pill, I really want to try not being on hormones for a while.

I saw group of people in prom-type clothes taking photos on that monument. Except they were older. Come to think of it, they were probably wedding photos. It was... odd.

Please use soap. The water does nothing.

Nursing student here, and the NUMBER ONE thing that we are told OVER AND OVER that cuts down on disease transmission is frequent, good hand washing. That means soap and friction, people! Just running your hands under water does not count! Ugh.

When I was 15 I was already deep into my 7 year struggle with bulimia and deeply, deeply unhappy.

He's the one who sounds like he's 14.

You can dance if you want too, but maybe it won’t get you the ladies.

Man, you don't have to be married to someone love someone. I'm so sorry for you.

More often used as 'desire', but not necessarily in the sexy sense. You say things like, "Ich habe kein Lust", meaning I have no desire, I don't want to do that.

I’m on the pill, but we still use condoms (even though it’s a several year, monogamous relationship). I think he likes having control over bc same as I do. Also, I effing hate feeling like I’m dripping semen. No thanks. I’ll keep with the condoms.

If you like/feel comfortable hanging out with strangers, I cannot recommend couchsurfing enough! It's totally free to stay anywhere in the world and you get a local's perspective on the fun things to do. It's the exact sort of thing my mother always warned me not to do, and has given me some wonderful experiences.…

Couchsurfing! It's great and there are tons of people who do it all over the world. You join couchsurfing.org and set up a profile, including whether you have extra space in your place for travelers to crash, how many, kids, pets, etc. When you are going to travel somewhere, you send out requests, to specific people…

I don’t know about everywhere, but in Michigan anyway farmer’s markets double SNAP dollars, so fresh veggies are actually affordable (grocery stores charging $1.50 for a single bell pepper is fucking ridiculous). If that’s something that happens near you, it’s pretty great.

I googled Teufelssalat. It’s just a spicy salad. Disappoint.

This made me do my awful cackle laugh. =D

We do that at my catering place too... only servers only get 60% of that 18% gratuity. Where does the other 40% go? Who fucking knows. We don't see it.

Whenever I get mad at my job (catering) I steal shit. I have so many whiskey glasses and brandy snifters. I also once stole a samovar (possibly silver??), so there's that.

Oof. I'm glad she still liked it, but I hope she got some kind of hefty discount.

Any chance it was the ophelia dress (found both on modcloth and amazon)? Because I LOVE that dress.

The real dream lies in finding time for both everyday.