“I do wonder what kind of person moves to a place, spends a bunch of time demanding that that place change all of their traditions, then acts surprised when that place doesn’t want to naturalize them.”

My problem with the “community claims you” argument is that, well, it’s not always feasible. I did not grow up in a NA community, largely because my mother was expelled from her community for marrying a white man. “Marry Out, Get Out” is absolutely still a thing (and it’s shameful). The standard advocated in that…

Watch what you say. I’ve seen many, many posts on this website declaring Straight White American Male Patriachy to be the worst patriarchy that ever patriarchied, with other Anglo countries close behind. To state that there are cultures and nations out there who have much more brutal patriarchies is racist, and you…

Hm. I am liberal and I fully support trans acceptance, but when someone is a convicted murderer (and not convicted in the sense of a kangaroo court) I gusss I don’t really have much empathy for their mental health. If she’s tried to kill herself, I can really only shrug my shoulders there. She willingly took another…

“Basically, Bo needs to suck it up and realize skin colour/ethnicity is sometimes the best way to specify someone particular in a crowd.”

It’s a cretinous crusade to admit that the person was rude?