“When you have always had privilege, you feel worthy of such, and you conduct yourself that way. It’s an invisible golden armor. It’s an expectation that you deserve nice things and will get them.”

Probably, and maybe they felt what they could afford to pay her would just be an insult. Between that and higher priority jobs McCarthy likely has—I can honestly see why they didn’t pursue it.

In my head, she is the kind of person who would totally do that. I hope I'm right!

Yeah, best guess. But it totally sucks. They should’ve given her the option to accept lower pay for old times sake.

“She’s really fucking busy” = “We didn’t even try because we can’t fucking afford her.”

Or it’s because she’s actually a garbage human being herself. She’s bisexual but loves calling her gay fans “faggots” and physically attacking them and she also likes physically assaulting random people on the street. She sounds like the perfect Trump voter.

I had the same thought. I have 2 friends who could count on me to help bury a body. But a CHILD’S BODY??!! I’d probably call the cops on their ass.

I think it’s always easier to blame the third party than blame the person you’re still (at that point, at least) in love with.

You got ... slapped?

I don’t think your sense of honor and sisterhood is misguided. You wanted to do the right thing but unfortunately the right thing is not always appreciated or rewarded. I’ve known of so many girls who’ve been told their boyfriends are being unfaithful and they either don’t believe it, or take it out on the messenger,…

Ditto to everything. It certainly didn’t help my view of men for a long, long time. It also affected how I viewed myself. I wasn’t the girl they brought home to mom, just the one they wanted for fun.

Same here. Recently, I got a sext from a stranger at 2AM. I was pissed becaise it woke me up and I texted them back to leave me alone. Some woman called me the next morning to scream at me that her man had never tried to contact me and I had better stop harassing them. ?!?

You got slapped???!

The shock is expected, anything said in that spur of the moment is likely an emotional reaction if anything. Still, got the job done, wouldnt be surprised if some of those relationships are over now.

When I was going through my divorce, my now ex-wife left her Facebook profile up on the computer. Naturally curious, I took a gander in her messages only to find her discussing the idea of having sex with another guy. I clicked his profile, and saw he was married, and I sent his wife a terse heads-up about what I’d…

I’m guessing this too. I’ve gotten texts/FB messages from guy friend’s wives and girlfriends telling me to cover up. People can be jerks.

I can really sympatize. For some weird reason I mostly attract married men. I learned a long time ago that outing them can backfire. Also, that fake nails can be really sharp.

Reason I left my ex husband was because a friend came forward like that. I believed her, and thanked her, asked for the divorce the next day, began hearing from a deluge of other friends he'd done it to them too, and went back to that first friend and thanked her again.

Same a friend dumped me for telling her. She blamed me for telling her and “making” her end the relationship.

Oy - the worst when inappropriate male behaviour ends up with women pitted against one another, and no real consequences for the guy. My gross uncle apparently hit on both his wife’s sisters and, when they told her about it, she freaked out, didn’t believe them, and it caused a huge fight that was never fully…