I think you're on the right track. Real talk- Chances are good that B feels judged by you. You may have overstepped your bounds by giving her unsolicited advice. If she goes back to school, it will be on her own time, according to how she feels. I returned to school after a long absence and I know how it can cause…

This isn't exactly the same situation, but my boyfriend has a friend that I think is egregious, and I deal with her by turning dealing with her into a mental game. The way to win the game is to be polite to her, but I also don't have to do literally anything else, including like her, care whether she likes me, or take…

I know a lot of Jezebeler's are young but for any middle-aged folk out there .... in my early 50's I suddenly find myself having distinct childhood memories. Nothing bad, not like a recovered memory, but I'll be doing dishes or washing a dog or in the school pick up line and get this sudden bright flash of a memory.

This is me, basically. I have all sorts of things that I can't leave alone at thrift stores.

I am drinking too much wine and eating too much pizza because I got dumped two days ago but I DONT CARE. Hoping my Frieda Kahlo socks Santa gave me give me some feminist powers not to get sucked into another funny boy. (Like Frieda can talk though, amiright?)

I feel like I'm being an Open Thread hog tonight, but screw it. I'm a ForeverGray and its near the bottom, and I just feel in the sharing mood tonight.

I don't think anyone will read this, but here goes:

Hi there! I'm glad you posted here. I LOVE that painting so took a gander at your Etsy shop. I just purchased a set of octopus coasters. Then I noticed you're from Memphis. I lived there for many years (Midtown), I'm happy to support a fellow Memphian. Your designs are just so, so....whimsical! Thanks and I'm looking…

OMG jimjilbangs! I miss them so much. I used to go all the time when I lived in Seoul. They are amazing once you get over the whole "naked around strangers" bit. Large soaking tubs, saunas, massage, and fierce Korean grandmothers who (for a fee) scrub you as pink and soft as a baby's butt. Absolute bliss. The day…

Were you at WiSpa by any chance? Even if you weren't, Korean spas are the greatest. Going regularly healed me of so many insecurities.

My husband relapsed and lied to me about it. I am heartbroken and don't want to go into details about it. Can I get your favorite "fuck you" gifs? My soul craves them right now.

The host is the only one of them I know - I think her friends and I are very different. I'm expecting fake nails, hair extensions, Kylie Jenner lips.

Hey all! So, I've needed a jump start since yesterday and my neighbor has offered to always jump me if I need it, but I didn't want to bother her today because I realized that the only reason I wanted to leave my house was because I theoretically COULDN'T and now I've got a raging case of FOMO.

So today my sister took me to this bomb Korean spa where you pay 25 dollars and get to go to all these mineral saunas and stuff. It was all good but what she neglected to tell me(on purpose) was that the woman's section with the hot tubs and showers was naked only. Like a little Korean lady will stop you if you are…

They were so great, and smart. A wonderful indie theater near me once had an afternoon Animaniacs marathon during the town fair, and I sat and watched for hours and hours. Did you know that the Nations of the World song lists Tibet and Palestine as nations? Serious political chutzpah, those guys.

I am now one weeks sans tobacco. It helps that I literally don't have money for smokes, but it's something that has been a long time coming.

Childhood is insisting you are too grown up for a nap. Adulthood is wishing desperately that you could squeeze in a nap.