These never fail to brighten my day. Thank goodness I was alone in the office. I was laughing out loud the whole way through!!

Thank you! I’m trying to tell my friends this isn’t a case of me “dwelling” on it. It’s brought all the old hurt back up to the surface, and I still deal with it daily as it is and felt like I’d made huge headway. This just drags a lot of old stuff up to the surface. It is a situation that just infuriates me.

I’ve had many a revenge fantasy involving that exact scenario. I’m not brave enough to do it. Caused enough waves when someone from there rcognised my picture from Project Unbreakable.

Your words mean a lot. Thank you. That’s why I love this site, you guys are all so supportive, even to long time lurkers and occasional commentors.

I know this is unrelated, but I need to get it out and have no where else to go to vent.

<3 <3 These stories are all the best!!

This warms the very cockles of my heart!!

I recently got back into the dating game. One new sex partner I decided very quickly wasn’t going to work. I decided it after I saw his monster penis. I’m not small or anything, so I figured, hey, a new challenge. Apparently my vagina has a limit, and that man was it.
No. It was not fun. And when there was a slight…

I think I did. I usually deleted his messages as soon as I got them. But in one I happened to read it said “They are sending me to *capital city 8 hours away* for treatment. Thanks a lot.”

You’re welcome.

Oh yes, I know. I shared a story a bit further up on my long term boyfriend trying to ghost me. Which hurt once I realised what was going on. They really are two entirely different scenarios, I know.
That was my only experience in ghosting someone, and not being ghosted, so I thought I’d share. Even though I hadn’t…

LOVE IS DEAD </3

That is an awful shitty thing for him to do to you. He deserved every single bit of ghosting you visited on him. What a tosspot.

I’ve had to ghost someone for my own mental health, and I felt like such an asshole. I went on one date, still new to the dating game after separating from my long term partner. So needless to say I was rusty.
Anyway, I met this guy and he seemed dorky, and sweet, and in hindsight, very much like my ex, so I really…

What a tool. My ex tried ghosting me. But when you live together, it makes it hard to be ghosted or ghost someone. When we started moving house and were living apart for a few weeks at a time.... yeah. He would just cut off contact until I drove the 10 hours to spend quality time with him. I felt guilty because I…

Thank you so much. Yes, we’re fed a similar “dream” in Australia. It would be so nice to enjoy what I worked hard for, I’ll get there one day. Just patience and time and hard work to try to get myself through!

I completely feel for you and wish you all the luck in the world. I am having housing drama of my own. In Australia, some reforms have come in to tighten lending to investors, to cool the market down.

Ralph’s GoFundMe

This is the best idea I have ever heard. I want so badly for this to be an actual thing.

Yep, the man who raped me was a newly wed, with a kid on the way, working an upper level, high paid, professional job. Normal as all hell to me, until he was actively defiling me.

I hear you about the announcing it! A year into mine. Still have people coming up and asking me where my former other half is. Get to feel the sting all over again. But it is for the best, and as expensive and life altering and acrimonious as it has been... I am definitely better off. Wishing you light, love and…