I do not want to trivialize the experiences of other commenters, but it should be made clear that—when you’re living it—there’s a colossal gulf between sleeping in your car or a friend’s basement and having truly nowhere to go.

Yeah, I lived in my car for a while, working two jobs and washing in restrooms... until I could get better jobs, etc.

Right? There is something about a woman that loves giving a blowjob, that almost needs to give a blowjob on the reg, that can’t be faked. I’ve dated 3-4 women like that, and whatever the issue was that end that particular relationship, they are the ones I remember most viscerally. I’m looking for more (well, one more,…