I HATED him on Kaitlyn’s season (didn’t watch Andi’s) just because I knew him as the guy who “kissed and told” on national tv and it felt vaguely slut-shamey toward Andi, and I found some of his behaviour on Kaitlyn’s season obnoxious and didn’t find him attractive.

Also, I like that he’s older. I mean Ben is what, 26? Sweet honey chile. I hope the contestants are all over 30. Unlikely, but a girl can dream.

I was thrilled that Chase wasn’t caving into JoJo’s desperate pleas to have him comfort her somehow after dumping him, because in all honesty the dumpee gets to feel upset and doesn’t have to assure the dumper that they understand etc. and then he backtracked and came back the next day and disappointed me. How could…