I truly believe we all need to help each other and no one makes it alone. But I just don't see why marriage entitles you to an automatic wad of money.

I actually respect people who are able " be a better person" all by themselves, if you are relying on someone for your happiness you may be setting yourself up for failure.

Agreed. I noticed in the late 1990s a trend toward the Oscar-acceptance-type speech from the bride and groom at every wedding. Invariably, they would begin with the "We could not have attained this amazing achievement without the help of all of you here today" type of statement. It was so self-aggrandizing and…

Agreed. It really pisses me off. I think its really ridiculous to get money for getting married as if its some life achievement - sorry, but I don't think getting married should be looked at as a big accomplishment. I'd rather give money/gifts to my friends who finish grad school, law school, med school, land a new…

Creep shaming, Jesus. Stop being fucking creepy and you'll have nothing to be ashamed of. See how that works?

Oh, poor you. If you're going to clutch your pearls that an adult woman has had more than one sexual partner or spouse, or suggest that white is a colour that must be "earned" at one's own wedding, at least own that shit.

>.<

What was wrong with him was that he couldn't force the pretty blonde women to fuck him. These were not cries for help (and what help would you propose for a man who thinks he is owed sex?). This was a psycho, and yes, a creep. Hypergamy? I wouldn't consider a woman not going out with a guy who posts YouTube videos and…

Gawd, I am so reluctant to respond to you, because I don't know if you're genuinely distressed and wrong, or just MRA trolling.

but making him feel invisible and unwanted for his entire life might drive him over the edge.

Creep shaming? That's a fucking joke, right?

Are you asking for a cookie for not being the "murdering woman-hating" kind?

This makes me sad. For many reasons, but because I usually associate intolerance with old, stodgy men who are in power (or want to be in power). When I hear young, college students talk and act like this it reminds me of how violence and hate can by cyclical. I like to think that the world as a whole is getting…

As long as you bring extra cheese!

What, like men are physiologically dirtblind? Yeah, sorry dude. You're just gross.

Do you have some kind of 24/7 servant or have you trained your children well? Either way, I want to go to there.

I need those glasses.

Ain't that the truth? My ex — a skinny, bald, dorky type who has been nicknamed "Gollum" by my friends — left me and our three kids last year for a coworker. Which was awful at first but freed me to upgrade to a gorgeous guy with a full head of hair and droolworthy muscles. Who also treats me like a princess and…

Most guys who think they "settled" have no idea that they actually hit the jackpot for their attractiveness level until there is some sort of rude awakening.

Totally. It especially does not surprise me given they're on Fetlife. It's the OP's cluelessness re: his own girlfriend's appeals that made it so LOLOMGWTFRUFK to me.