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This comment would make of an amazing drinking game of "cliche male responses to Jezebel discussions."

Mae West famously said, "Men want two women...a thin one to show off with, and a fat one to get off with."

From a guy's perspective, yeah, I'm going to notice, but if I can't go about my business in the presence of women that's a pretty hopeless life.

Gotta agree. I used to hook-up with this awesome girl back in college and for awhile after we graduated, who happened to be a little bigger in size. This girl was a catch, funny, smart, caring, kind. I could go on all day about her qualities. For some reason this girl really liked me. Like the a-hole I was back then

There is a very subtle truth to what you said here.... "fat people are not shown in the same light as thin or athletic people in the media". This is a huge influence in our culture... TV, celebrities, movies, the media. More so than most people would ever admit to themselves.

My current girlfriend is fat. When we were first talking, getting to know each other, I had an internal debate over whether or not I had a problem being seen with a fat girl. I'm ashamed to have even thought about it. I didn't feel good about it, I don't feel good that I considered that at all. I knew that if we were

SO true. I definitely had times when I was younger where I let peer pressure lead me away from relationships that probably would've been fulfilling purely because of societal expectations and fears. Of all the mistakes I've made in my life, those are the ones I'm most ashamed of.

...would I be a horrible person if I kind of wanted to see them myself, now?

"There would have to be more 2, because they are the people that create the social stigma for the 1's"

Of course its a judgement call. The point is that #1 exists, and that's the trope we're discussing here.

Attraction can grow, based on getting to know a person. And I think more women are willing to give that a shot than men.

Because that's a reductionist, evo-psych nonsense premise. Eugenics hasn't been cool for like a century now.

Louie hit this one on the head. I've dated a lot of heavier girls and I've definitely felt the judgement from other men. The problem isn't that men don't like big girls; it's that men don't like the way other men look at them when they're with big girls. It's a societal issue that Louis illustrates flawlessly. It's

OR MEN WITH TINY PENISES.... no that I would know, I am HUUNG

If you look at past photos, she's always been a little bony. Getting older removes those layers of body fat, so that is probably what is going on. She isn't thinner than any other skinny actor, just a little older.

Are you kidding me? You don't have to be an expert to notice she is too thin. That's like saying you need to be an expert on the civil rights movement to diagnose racism or an expert in anything really in order to talk about something you can see with two eyes in your head.

Unless you have the proper credentials to diagnose that or even speculate that, all you're doing is body shaming her. Stop it, and most definitely stop diagnosing psychiatric disorders without the proper license.

I love when people are happy but I'm sorry, Aaron Paul gushing about his wife every damn day is making him look increasingly like one of those desperate posters to social media eager to construct a perfect-looking narrative of his or her life that actually gleams with underlying dissatisfaction and uncertainty. I'd