Nothing is a deal-breaker for me if I like a guy, but I really, really prefer shorter men. I'm 5'4'' and anything taller than 5'10" is awful. Perfect is around 5'8'' or 9''. And I usually wear three-inch heels. The feeling of someone hulking over me is gross.

She made a comment to the effect that an Asian dude could only wear out a woman if he fucked her in the butt. You know, 'cause their dicks are SO SMALL. And then got judgey about buttsex. I dismissed it.

Adorably sheltered? And this from the bitch who doesn't do anal. Cute.

That's 'cause she is.

How interesting. I'm fucking a Black guy with no body hair. It's not really my thing, but whatevs, he's got other great qualities. The last time I had sex with an Asian guy I couldn't walk for three days.

Also, go fuck yourself.

So you had a negative sexual experience with a man who's Asian and you think it was due to the fact that he's Asian? That doesn't make any sense at all. If I decided that the quality of a sexual encounter was somehow related to race, I'd probably only want to have sex with non-humans. Meaning that I've had good and…

I've been dating for twenty-five years. So I've met a lot of men.
A lot of them have archaic, sexist attitudes. I'd even venture to say most do.

He looks like his breath stinks.

I think I'm about done with social media. I'm not even on Instagram, don't really have much experience with selfies (either taking them myself or dealing with others') and probably haven't even heard of most of the new sites and tech the kids are into these days, but still, I'm finding that just the combination of…

I didn't ask a question.
He's fine. He's just an asshole.

Yeah. I can't say I'm that things were going very well lately. Still, disappearing after that long? Not okay.

I saw him two and a half weeks ago. He was going away on business on Sunday, two weeks ago. I called Saturday and we talked and he was a bit of an ass. I texted later that day and he responded, pretty cold.
Then I texted a few days later and got no response. I called a few days after that, a little over a week ago,…

I posted here a week ago sharing that I thought my boyfriend of eleven months had "ghosted" on me. Still no word from him.
I continue to hope that he simply dropped dead.

Please, by all means, discuss it. If you have the patience of a saint (because I am a deeply flawed person) you can even discuss it with me.

This wasn't in response to me, but this statement really leads me to think that you're just in here playing around and trying to piss people off. People have been trying to…

Well I could point out the number of judges who have recently upheld rape culture, which is as "enabling and supporting" as it gets. But you can find those articles here if you wish.

I'm giving up on you.

Cool. I think I wrote another response somewhere in this thread earlier that wasn't as civil. It's a frustrating subject.

I'm fairly certain that you don't want to believe that rape culture exists, since you have a perfect opportunity to see that it does, but refuse to.
If you actually care, I recommend putting up a dummy online dating profile as a woman in her 20s and 30s. Add a picture. See what happens. I'd also recommend, if you have…

Alright so you also don't see that worldwide anti-semitism exists. But it does. And it did in the 30s and 40s which had a lot to do with why so many Jews perished. I have no doubt people were pretty scared of the Nazis. But they also hated Jews. The fact that you don't know this, or refuse to believe it's true, is…

The thought process seemed a lot like my friend's, who has Asperger's. She also struggles with empathy.

The first thing I thought after reading that essay was that he's on the spectrum.
Of course, he could just be a dick.
Or both.