You are hanging around with the wrong crowd then. There’s lots of good men out there, but they aren’t fodder for news articles. Get some therapy if you need it, and keep trying to be one of the good ones.

I read up online the next day, and you are right, it did seem like it should be counted among good encounters. However, since it was evening and dark when it happened, it kind of unnerved me at the time. I slept with lights on that night. ;) He slept there on my cabinet, then flew out my back door in the morning.

I know. And in total adult-style, that night I just pulled the blankets over my head and hoped the moth flew back outside before I woke up.

I did try it once. I sat cross legged on my bed one night, eyes closed, listening to a podcast by Deepak Chopra. Suddenly I hear this weird thwacking noise. This big guy was flying around my bedroom. I thought I’d inadvertently summoned him with my meditating. I should give it another whirl though. No side effects at…

I’ve had to take Vicodin a few times (for injuries or surgeries). It’s the one thing that really clears my head and allows me to focus. But of course I can’t take it regularly. I tried Xanax (thinking it might work the same way) and it just made me a raging bitch. So, I just deal with over-thinking everything. Sigh.

My sympathy and empathy. Mine too. :(

You have amazing self control. I’d be inclined to respond with a “why the fuck would you ask me that?” if my mom asked me something like that repeatedly.

Completely agree.

Sounds like our only resort, honestly.

It’s going to be unfortunate if they stop posting important news on Jez (and only put celebrity and gossip here). I like reading serious news here because we can have quality enlightening conversations about it. If all those articles move to Gawker, the comment sections will go downhill quickly. :(

Ha! Exactly.

Shocking how lone wolves can be so lone, yet act so similar.

Ha! It’s like Unfriending Chicken. :)

And this is why I’m going through a mass unfollowing. While it’s informative to know how awful people think, I don’t want them ugly-ing up my FB newsfeed. Blech.

I think you definitely need to put that ultimatum out of your mind. Nothing brings out my self destructive behavior like giving myself an ultimatum. (i.e. I decide I have to lose weight then immediately go eat a burrito)

Oh my god, are you my sister? The idiot cousin and his mom (my idiot aunt) were the first two to go. And my mom is none the wiser.

Right?! Like, at first I thought seeing it was useful to help me see the way these people think. But no. It just makes me angry and disappointed and gets worse by the day. Unfollow unfollow unfollow.

#NotAllRubbers

Matt McGorry is a fucking genuis.

I know. I feel like I will look as big as her after Thanksgiving dinner tomorrow. Just some low-slung gym pants + bra + arched back = pregnant Parker.