That's definitely a great point, and honestly, the notion of "what would happen if" is the major reason why I don't always shout about my procedures from the rooftops. Even in conversation, any person can unwittingly walk into a political argument. There are times when I've prefaced my story with "please don't think…

My point was not to invalidate her feelings, as she is a living, breathing human being, and this is how she came to her decision, and this is how she copes with it. My reaction and rhetoric in no way I hope will come across as critical of her own choice, just how her choice and feelings will be utilized another…