well Congradulations! That's super exciting! I am kind of freaking out tho that you got pregnant with an IUD....can I ask how? I didn't realize that could happen...was it Mirena or the copper?

Definitely second Dr Who on Hulu. I watched all of the series when my little one was just here. If you like british shows peep show and pramface. I also really liked the good wife on hulu.

I know it seems like everything is over, but you are still so young and have a chance to find someone you are really compatible with who you can have a great life with. Do you have good friends you can lean on while you are hurting?

wow. So basically this girl had it coming huh

I just think wishing prison on her husband is litttleeee over the top. Given that you seem very bitter about having to pay taxes, would you really voluntarily pay taxes if you didn't have to? You do also realize that paying for schools, ect with your tax dollars does benefit the childless by helping to produce an…

A bit harsh don't you think?

the exact same thing happened to me, (got laid off at 6 mo pregnant) so I just stayed on unemployement. Keep in mind that unless congress passes extended benefits only last 6 months now

thanks for replying, it is just a terrible situation. I actually would love to talk more, can you private message on kinja so we can share emails? I don't feel like I can talk to my friends/sisters about this because I told my sister about the sexting and she now hates my husband and keeps telling me to get divorced,…

Wow. Well I'm glad I'm not the only one dealing with such stupidity! My husband doesn't even have the profiles under a different name. I am worried that there is still more that I haven't found out about, that he has been having Skype sex ect. He claims that it isn't really cheating because he hasn't hooked up with…

this so many times...cause women aren't supposed to enjoy sex ever or have agency over our own bodies. It should always be the guy who dictates when and how "eye roll"

Yeah I don't get cheating personally, I think if you want more or know that you can't be monogamous that should be openly discussed. I'm pissed cause it was his idea to get married! Why ask if you can't deliver...it is just selfish

yeah I think what makes it harder is he is acting like it isn't really that big of a deal, and not understanding how deeply hurt and betrayed I feel, which then make me feel even worse! And thanks! First time commenting on Jezebel and you are all so lovely!

I am trying to manage my feelings so I can be more clear about what actions I need to take. I appreciate your response! And therapy is definitely something I need to make happen

OMG I know exactly what you are talking about. The constant rejection absolutely gets to you, and before you know it you are convinced you are totally unattractive.

I hope your situation gets better soon. It seems like you are doing everything you can to build a good life for you and your daughter, and she needs you.

thanks, intellectually I know that but my insecurities make me think it's somehow my fault. I appreciate kind words!

This is my first time commenting on Jezebel. I'm really going through a difficult time right now, and am feeling ok some days and like I want to die other days.