Wasn’t there already a book exactly like this called He’s Just Not That Into You?

HE JUST DOESN’T WANT TO RUIN THE FRIENDSHIP, OK??????

As I said below, I don’t think she disapproves, just that she has a parental or familial view of these kids and it’s difficult for her to see.

This is why Ginny went with him to the Yule Ball!

If Neville’s the Wrongbottom I don’t wanna be right.

I think we were at the same party in 2008.

I find that to be an interesting question because, to me (and several people I know) kissing/making out is more intimate than sex. I’ve had four sexual partners who I didn’t kiss — for various reasons. I’ve had sex with more people than I’ve kissed. But I guess OKCupid is trying to lump people together so the…

That’s seriously a question on okcupid?? I don’t think I’ve ever known all the names of the people I’ve made out with.

I think you should be able to joke and talk about past relationships for sure. At first my husband wasn’t comfortable with that, but I told him I’m not embarassed of my past, and I find it humorous to talk about and so do other people, so if he wasn’t ok with that I’d tone it down but I wans’t going to hide who he…

haha my doctor asks if you have had sexual intercourse if yes with how many partners: 1-2, 3-4, or five or more. Which I was always like... so if it’s over five it you may as well have fucked every person you’ve ever laid eyes on? The nurse tried to say it was to determine your risk for certain stds or strains of HPV.…

I can eat cream cheese right out of the tub; I’m so not worried about appearances.

You can ask questions while still giving no fucks.

I keep the heads of all the men I’ve mated with on my mantle piece.

I’ve been with two women whose Number was north of 70 (well, two women who said so), and one of them was exactly like the promiscuous man you describe there. The other was awesome, though - and, as you might predict from your assumptions there, she was in a long-term poly thing.

What if you had sex with all those people while really fucking high.

This whole “don’t ask don’t tell” thing just seems to reinforce the cultural preoccupation with slut shaming and unhealthy views on having an ejoyable sex life overall. Like if you can’t be honest with someone about your sex life in a long-term relationship, why are you with them? Its not like you have to get into…

You’ve never run into an ex? You’ve never run into someone and your spouse asks how you know them and it turns out you know them through your ex? Your spouse has never asked if you’ve been somewhere and it turns out yes, it was with my ex? You’ve never discussed if you have or haven’t lived with someone previously? If…

About that last part - there are some comments on here where people have been together for decades and have never even mentioned past relationships. How do you (assuming you aren’t very young still) get to know your partner when you’re both constantly editing the past? How do adults not accept that their partner had a…

I don’t tell people how many but I do brag about the threesomes!

The number of women who lied and said a lower number makes me sad. #whyweneedfeminism