I mean. . .she’s not saying “Don’t use condoms, STDs don’t matter!” She’s saying that herpes is a disease that even condoms can’t fully protect against and many people are going to get no matter how careful they are. The stigma and shame around it does literally nothing to protect people from STDs. In fact, it really…

I really wanted to post “I mean it’s a banana, what could it cost, ten dollars” on this thread about GOOP but IDK how to post GIFS :(

. . .my brain just exploded with rage

The thing that’s a turnoff for me is the way their language talks about ‘poor people’ like they’re some separate, pitiable entity that has nothing to do with them. It’s a really common thing with charities— we’re pretty much encouraged to think of ‘the poor’ like they’re some vague group of sad people who we’d never…

Ah, this is what I’ve been trying to articulate in my head but failing. The thing that’s off-putting about this “challenge” is that it’s so othering— it speaks about people who use SNAP ,‘the poor’, like they’re a monolithic, pitiable entity instead of normal people like everyone else. So yes, if celebrities were…

Wait who is the long hair ‘keep that pussy tight’ guy. Why am I not cool and in the know.

Even if that’s the case. . .WHY is that such an important thing to tell someone on the third date? Like, can you imagine ever being like “Omg, I dated this girl for two months and then I found out she had NEVER TOLD ME she was the illegitimate child of Huey Lewis from Huey Lewis and the news. What a violation! I…

If there were any actually interesting point to be made by this, it would be how ridiculous it is that people manage to market diets that involve consuming basically nothing, yet charge insane amounts of money for the foods. As in— you could probably spend $1 a day on your weirdo lemon juice pepper cleanse bullshit…

Because 15% is a bad tip. The idea that it's standard is outdated. 20% for good service, more for great service.

Yeah I mean. . .I know nothing about this girl and her statement certainly sounds a little ditzy, but I’m not digging all this “LOL how could a porn star ever hope to become a DOCTOR” attitude on an ostensibly feminist website.

I kinda want to copy and paste this comment every time I get an Okc message from a guy in his mid-30s who is only looking for “short-term dating”.

Yeah, I have realized this and now I am basically the anti-chill when it comes to dating— not only do I want something serious and I say so, BUT I won’t have sex with you for a bunch of dates (because that’s the part that gives me the actually good, waiting-to-know-someone-before-getting-intimate kind of chill).

You can’t really deny one with out denying the other. Because the problem isn’t JUST that there is an epidemic of rapes happening, it’s that so few rapists are brought to justice and that women are rarely believed when they talk about their rapes— and that is inherently a cultural problem. One feeds into the other,…

Ugh yeah, I saw a guy on Facebook say “I know several guys who have had their lives seriously messed up by girls who just regretted having sex with them when they were drunk”. Because. . .you were there and saw those women consent? Or maybe, just maybe, do you know some rapists?

So much better. Sabra has a weird aftertaste.

I’m sure if the Rolling Story hadn’t been discredited all these tools would completely believe in rape culture, right?

Your hummus is full of listeria. This is really the sword you’re gonna die on right now? :P

Also even if you think you’re too lazy to make your own, you can do what I did and make it once, but make a double batch because you REALLY love hummus but then you will have such a terrible overwhelming amount of hummus that you cannot possibly eat no matter how much you shove in your face, and by the end of the week…

Tribe Hummus is superior. You’re welcome.

Ahh— yeah, I don’t have my own washer and dryer, just the crappy laundromat that I can’t really trust to use gentle cycle. Someday I will live in a real home with a washer and dryer and I’ll get all the Modcloth then!