As a teen girl, it had honestly never occurred to me that I ought to know anything about my own genitals until I started seeking out and found sex-positive, feminist sex ed online. I just hadn’t thought of it as remotely important and when I finally thought I should actually stick a mirror down there, it took a while…

I like a lot of your comments. But just back away from this one slowly please.

I always thought big nipples were fucking cool. Thumbs up on the piercings. I always wanted those but could never uncover for the piercing dude.

A person who says those things isn’t speaking truth. They are saying things to hurt you, and they know your vulnerabilities and that’s why they said it. Normal, healthy people don’t say shit like that about anyone, let alone their loved ones. And they don’t think that way either. I’m sure your partner isn’t perfect…

Merkins make me giggle. Especially since I recently had to explain what they were/are to my 66 year old mother. I think it was “pussy toupee” that finally got through to her...

So, that was your experience as a teenager, and that’s valid, but it isn’t universal. Studies show that many women/girls have been subject to misogynistic, insulting comments about their vulvas from male teen dating partners. You extrapolating (with good intentions, I’m sure!) from your own experience to say that…

So happy he is my ex. I am now married to man who is absolutely wonderful. The first time we had sex I didn’t want to take my shirt off because of my stretch marks, and he told me “My mom had seven kids, I know what pregnancy does to a body, and you’re beautiful.” Never afraid to get naked for him again.

i don’t know anything about lab-sag but as a gay sex worker i can tell you that balls definitely sag over time.

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I had a boyfriend talk about my vag, and how my breasts weren’t round and perfect. And also how disgusting it is that I’m a squirter.

It’s a labia reference specifically. I’m sure there are female songs out there but when there’s a call for songs about vags in an article about labias I mean it’s the perfect excuse to pull out the “Laffy Taffy” song.

I think maybe it’s because we have to make a real effort to see our bits. Dudes are literally handling theirs every day, it’s out there all the time. They’re intimately familiar with it.

Is “laffy taffy” a vag reference?

“Laffy Taffy,” a great masterpiece of mid-00s crunk that celebrates labia in all its glory.

Seriously, as a dude, ESPECIALLY when I was a teen dude, there’s no way any kind of way a vagina can look to scare us away.

You face lips are too small!

Is it time to bring this classic back?

I ALREADY PRE ORDERED MINE.

Can Kylie Jenner’s Labia Lip Kit be far behind?

I personally think vagina lips are super awesome! I think we need someone the kids like these days to sing about how they love their lips as is & make it a trend.