And white women are still white and treat poc of color like shit.

What is Kanye right about?

Kanye is the one who defended a serial rapist, though. That pushes a little past annoying. So I’m not sure equating the two is very honest.

Kanye is a disaster of a human but I find Taylor Swift annoying. Her convenient feminism that only applies to her when her feelings get hurt and her “protect me” because I’m a little girl thing and that’s why you shouldn’t make fun of her fragile feelings is insufferable.

And then said I owed him sex because of it. Kanye has really been into rape culture recently.

“Yeezus, can you just give it a west already” said Taylor, swiftly.

God, I’m so BORED with this shit. Another straight white baby boomer dude self-glorying wankfest (nostalgia edition). How can a single demographic be so endlessly entertained with itself! And so institutionally narcissistic that it assumes that literally everyone agrees on how fascinating every detail of their…

Fwiw, it’s absolutely possible to be unfaithful in an open relationship. Nonmonogamy takes an enormous amount of trust and commitment, and a lot of communicating. I don't think the answer for cheaters is open relationships (necessarily) because they can absolutely still disregard their partner(s) feelings and cross…

I just exploded with jealousy. Leo IS NOT WORTHY.

You’re asking them to “admit” something that is not necessarily true. That’s my problem with your statement. For example you can’t ask me to “admit” that strawberries aren’t for me if you don’t even have any idea if I like strawberries or not to begin with. I can only admit something that is true. In the same way, you…

Ugh. Two of my mutual friends got together, one of them an admitted serial cheater and the other thinking she had the magic pussy that would change him. Within six months he cheated and the relationship crashed and burned and he ended up basically exiling himself from our mutual social circle rather than force people…

That is rough, and you and your mother have my sympathy.

I admit I am a bit sensitive to this. My father abandoned my mother for another women when my mother found out she had cancer. He literally left her after 35+ years with a letter on the table. I agree with certain things you are saying but disagree with others. Lets just agree that many cheaters are fundamentally…

I agree and both disagree with you. At my age, 44, you are who you are. Most of my friends are my age and older. If at 44 you haven’t figured out not to fuck over others, you never will. I would give tons of concessions to a 20 something year olds however.

That is what I said in one of my responses. A drunken one night thing might be forgivable for me but an affair would not. Intent is the same in both.....get laid. The level of deception and gaslighting however is waaaay worse with the second. To me, if he came home and said he drunkingly had sex with some random at a…

I have and frankly the ones that minimize and push the reason they cheated off on their partners are the ones I cut out of my life. That is a larger sign of their personality and inability of owning their shit. The ones who took the steps to fix themselves and took total responsibility are my friends. I have a kind…

Cheating falls under lying, which has always been our deal breaker on everything. After 23 years, there isn’t much left in the matter of complete disclosure and we certainly have private thoughts and friendships with other people. The rule we always go by, “can I bring my new friend home for dinner with the spouse,…

BUT, would your relationship with your cats survive 40 stupid dates and raising a watermelon together?