I...understand part of the logic. There is an overlap of sexual orientation and gender identity, with some trans and nonbinary people identifying as gay, lesbian, bisexual. But cis members of the gay, lesbian, and bisexual community are very much on the outside of that experience. So I can see how some self-interested…

Jesus Humpbacked Christ! This is so repulsive I cannot even deal with it. She’s not just a rapist; she’s a rapist of a mentally disabled victim. Not to say there is a scale of how bad rape is based on the victim, but the circumstance of a caregiver raping a mentally disabled victim is a particular kind of horror. It…

Stoned and completely unsure, as well.

This comes out the week of my birthday next year! I am far too excited for this film. One of my favorite things to do is catch a mid afternoon matinee and have lunch at the once-local, now-national chain of eatery/theaters. Totes doing that on my birthday with this movie next year! Regarding the man-child tantrum, I…

I’d merrily bend him over several pieces of furniture. But I got a thing for domming masculine guys a bit older than me.

But was she really a lady?

I am an ogre. 6’6”, over 300 lbs. /looms.

As I explained to my friend who is poly, I do not understand the concept. That doesn’t mean I have to have an opinion about it. There are lots of things I don’t understand, but that I also do not have an opinion about. Quantum mechanics, how to make macarons, bird watching.

Sounds like someone caught some feelings during a bro job.

When did Shonda Rhimes take over reality, and why I am more okay with that than I thought I would be?

Yeah! So...just like. You know. Eat exactly only anything you were raised on and can source exactly to your particular intersection of ethnicities and *appropriate*! cultural influences. Or, you know. You’d better have your kneepads on so you can genuflect appropriately while reading your 32 page list of sources…

Hopefully by then I’ll have some idea of how to put a cake together nicely. This one is so amateurish looking I just can’t even. The crumb was a bit soft, though, and I was impatient. maybe it would have been easier to work with if I had let it cool another half hour. But I seriously started that cake at 1:30 (by…

Tomorrow is my friend’s birthday. I’m making an espresso cake layered with ganache with a from-scratch dulche de leche icing.

I was at a camp out with my church group when I was younger. I hate nature. I hate camping. It was awful. Then we were sitting around talking about Jesus, and there was a spider. But not just any spider. It was something I had heard called a wolf spider, and it had tiny little baby spiders teeming on its back. Now,…

More Kanboooooooooooooooooooooo, amirite?

Yet hasn’t died yet. That’s SO Yoko!!!

I luuuuuuuuuuuuuuurve summer. And I live in a hot city and am fat. Moob sweat: I get it! But, I dunno. I just love the light, and the heat, and the energy of the season. Winter kills me. I am unsure if I have season affected disorder, but I do know that I am sensitive to the change in light starting around now. By…

A few years ago I realized that everything I hate about winter (which in the South is the wet, short days colored in my memory by the brown of fallen, rotting leaves and the gray of cold Alabama skies, and the humid chill of air just a enough degrees above freezing to result in humidity instead of frost) actually…

I am a nurse. So I have a LOT of nurses on my Facebook feed. And you are absolutely correct. I can’t decide if they are trying to convey how bad ass they are (and honestly- I work with most of them, and I can say that our job is terrifying/exciting maybe 3% of the time; otherwise it’s just meticulously seeing to the…