Not to repeat a cliche, but, I'm going to repeat a cliche—abandonment issues? There's nothing wrong that's your fault, but if you can get back to therapy somehow, it can help. Everyone feels a little of this, but the goal is to be "Sorta-OK" even if you end up on your own for a time (breakup, bereavement) and know…

Me too. LW went to another country where they haven't been socialized for 40 years to hit it and quit it, not that anything's wrong with that—and LW thought just because he said "let's keep it casual" that his partner was down with a casual relationship. That's what I'm reading between the lines, anyway.

Here's another creepy thing. I'm not sure Kline was directly involved, but Kline was so determined that the government had the right to get medical records from clinics in Kansas whether the patient gave consent or not. So when they were zeroing in on the BTK killer, they needed a DNA sample. Instead of going to…

Here's a juicy story. Kline's arch-enemy was the district attorney of Johnson County, Kansas, Paul Morrison. Kline was determined to shut down Tiller, and Morrison was determined to shut down Kline.

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Me again. I don't know about where you live, but where I live (KC) even with the recession, there are bus-table jobs in walking distance where he could probably make enough to catch the occasional football game at a sports bar. How do I know this? There's a guy in our social circle who for whatever reason is nearly…

Here's one thing you might be able to do. Again, I was in this situation for a time. I called a homeless shelter in our city and found out to my surprise they weren't full up (because of the recession I assumed they were full up). I talked to the homeless shelter about whether they'd take him and they said yes, if…

Oh I feel for you. I went through 16 months of having a freeloader living in my house rent-free who wouldn't do any chores. Just wanted to jump in and say you'll know when the time is right to kick him out. It was so hard for me to understand how a person could be that big an asshole. It was hard for me to…

Two weeks. Two weeks is the secret. If you ever get a stick-shift you'll have it down in two weeks and never forget how.

Your dad was onto something about the "under 5 minutes." Serial killer profilers say that often, would-be killers are driving along and see someone stranded and start thinking and calculating whether they could get away with it, then turn around and go back.

I used to change my own oil on my last 3 cars but not on my current car. I got old enough where I felt I was too busy to make the time compared to what it costs and the time it takes to pay to have it done. If I were retired I might start doing it again.

I'm convinced I'm the only person left on the planet who balances her checkbook.

I wondered "Where are all the Brianna's of the 90's" and it turns out Brianna was #26 overall in the 90's.

Hmm, maybe Lucia, Valentina, Carolina, Mia, Gabriela, Imani, Jasmine, Naomi

Please do this for other continents!!!

You don't have to specify "the white people of Colorado." There are no nonwhite people in Colorado, that I could see.

Not yet! I have it on audiobook, but haven't listened yet!

There's also the story of Amnon and Tamar, and Absalom's revenge.

Maryville was also the site of a 1931 lynching.