Are you my older sister? You sound like her! If so, you aren't fooling anybody with those happy pics of you and your husband and your oh-so-great life! Well maybe you are fooling your college "friends" but you're not fooling me! I stalk your page so I can laugh at the happy facade you like to present! If you're…

I can't judge—I've been in relationships with my share of goldbrickers.

I didn't know that! Hearted!

Just the other day I was talking to this guy in his early 50's who hasn't held a job in years, couch surfs in other people's houses (although he does pay them rent) has a big ol' goiter, and doesn't always have the best hygiene (although he is popular and has other good qualities.) We were talking about this dance…

Me too!!!

And maybe the person who won't lift a finger for more than six months, letting the less strong-bodied breadwinner do all the physical tasks including shoveling all the snow, doesn't understand unselfishness.

See my earlier post (as if anyone's earlier posts could be found in this comment system) I have known way more than I care to admit of the sad sacks watching TV all day, not even lifting a finger to do household stuff. I do not understand why men go to pieces and take to the couch while women find some way to be…

If you're environmentally minded, the Sierra Club employs people such as yourself (I think) on such projects as the Beyond Coal campaign, I think.

Ugh. I know too many guys like this. If I were unemployed I would sure as hell do something to make myself useful. I'd clean houses, mow yards, volunteer. Yet all of the unemployed men I have known in my life have been the Bathrobe Of Doom (TM) sorts. I didn't even make that phrase up. It's a thing because it…

I got yer unemployed Ryan Gosling right here