You respond to what you perceive as rudeness with incivility and rudeness. I'm not sure how you think that will improve things. You seem unable to accept any criticism yourself.

In fact, a lot of your comments are you complaining about other people's comments. You spend a lot of time criticizing people for being critical.

So basically, you're writing a really nasty comment accusing me of being rude? Doesn't that just negate your entire point?

Cookie - I've found several of my apartments through calling local vets or pet stores - they always had good recommendations for me. Whenever I moved, I put out a little note to my new bureau asking for suggestions from people who already owned pets. That was a big help too.

I've found apartments in Prague, London, Berkeley, Nebraska, New York, Boston, Philadelphia, Missouri and many others. Sometimes it takes a little extra work. It's way easier to make childish excuses.

This isn't a "shit happens" situation. AT. ALL. And I've lived everywhere from California to Albany to New York City to Prague. You can find an apartment. It just takes the smallest bit of effort.

If this was an emergency and she'd lost her job or gotten ill, I'd support finding another home.

I know you want us to say, sure, dump the cat on your parents so you can enjoy good times with your roomies! But no. When you adopted this animal, you made a promise to take care of it. That does not mean you dump it just because you want to hang with your buds. You take the time to time an apartment that…

I guess what I'm saying is that you want compassion from other people for your situation, right? I think you'd get it if you had some compassion from the people around you as well.

So agreed. As a fat girl, I'm mocked whenever I leave the house. I'm terrified to go to a pool.

You are missing the point of this post entirely. Not every post about being fat is the place to start the OMG being fat is unhealthy ramalamadingdong.

Because I'm all sorts of aggressive, I would write back and say something like "I am actually not stupid. I'm sorry a movie is such a sore spot for you, but maybe you could lighten up a little bit when someone is trying to be funny and get to know you better. In other words: Pull The Stick Out. All best! "

I want to judge, but as a super fat chick, I'm very jealous.

Can you sit down (outside the bedroom) and have a talk about it. And say something like.. I felt humiliated when you made that comment about using toys last week. It's great that you can come with just you and me, but I can't. In fact, most women can't come just that way.

Today in online dating: Some dude IMs me, and we chat for a couple minutes good fine. I get back on later and he ims me again, and every. single. thing. I say, he turns it around into sex. We'd have a picnic for our first date, and then he brings up naughty shit with strawberries.

No sweetie, Maurice died some years ago. Barry is the only one left.

I mirror your remark, but I'm having Pepsi Next and watching Girls. I think I might go crazy and have some soup.

That is so sad. I can't imagine those poor families..

Because I have friends on OKC and I know some of my students are on it. They don't need to know ..

I'd be fine using OKC, but I wouldn't want my face on it because I know other people who are on OKC.