I'm intrigued by the coffee shop requirement. Can you give an example of someone who didn't know how to order coffee?

My favorite part is when guys somehow blame their faults on you. You're the reason they have faults.

I always had a thing for Blaine. Particularly when he was in Secretary. Or White Palace.

What are your deal breakers in relationships? For me, the guy has to be able to hold a conversation. Like, an actual back and forth conversation. This is apparently a hugely high bar..

I actually got my hair cut at the Mothership when I was in New York. It was the best. haircut. ever. Totally worth the fortune it cost. I loved being surrounded by other curly girls and guys.

Yoga really helped my back, but there were some poses that were good (Happy Baby) and some poses that were not - like twists. It's because a lot of my back pain was due to really tight shoulders and hamstrings. If it's so bad you can't wipe your butt, there might be something else going on and you don't want to…

It's because they had to do SOMETHING to take away from his hottness. That boy is like a walking steam bath.

Taylor Kitch made me realize I could, indeed become a cougar. There were a few times I wish he'd wash his hair though - my favorite episode was when he saved Julie in the tornado. Also I love Eric Taylor and wish I looked like his wife. Their relationship was so awesomely real and I love how she called him on his…

I used to love, love Lush. But I cannot take going in their stores anymore. The sales people are so freaking aggressive. I snuck in for their Christmas sale and was completely accosted. Never again. I love their Big Tease (I have very very fine hair) but I'm forced to order online..

I know I'm going to get slammed for this. But really, as a fat ugly girl in today's society, I do not want children because I'm afraid they'd look like me. It's unfortunately true that looks are overwhelmingly what matter - weight in women most of all.

Ditto everyone else's story. I was nervous when I had my first colposcopy and my friend came with me, even though I'm old. It was like a pap smear, but more intense. Everything turned out fine. Try not to freak out.. just think, this is what I get pap smears for! just in case! Aren't I awesome for taking care of…

nice that he only scorned his family! It's hard when they are beloved in the outside world because people don't know them behind closed doors..

Please please don't go to sleep and not wake up. You're not worthless or pathetic. Please call the Hopeline at 1-(800)-SUICIDE. You can PM me too.

Here's what I do - I offer to buy them a WaWa sandwich or a cup of coffee or soup or something. I don't want to contribute to drugs or alcohol, but if I can afford a little something, I do that. I have mixed feelings about these kind of events. They raise money — but they cost a lot to attend and there's overhead,…

Because it's easier to let him win and smooth things over? There's a lot of .. ohhh, it's just XXX, you know how he is, don't get him started.

Believe me, if I told him that, he'd lose his mind. Because who am I to lecture him and that's just part of the business blah blah. And I'd be the bad guy again. I've worked around enough doctors and police and firefighters to know that what black humor is common, this kind of condescending disgust is not.

He defriended me as soon as I asked him the message about being thoughtful to others.

My cousin is a racist, homophobic, drunk asshole. His family is very wealthy. He barely graduated high school and still lives at home at age 30. I cannot think of a single kind thing he has said or done for anyone. But he is ALWAYS complaining that people are mean to him and throwing massive temper tantrums (did I…

I cry super super easily and I hate it. It's gotten way worse as I've gotten older. I cry when I get angry. I cry when I tell a student they did a really good job. I can just think about something like the doggie commercial yesterday and I start tearing up. The only bonus is that I'm a beautiful crier, with the one…

I would say no. Although I'm a big animal person, this isn't a matter of public safety or where someone's life is at risk, which are the only two reasons I can think of for blowing off the record. Most people aren't choosing their president based solely on this one story, although it's definitely a factor for many…