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okay but i finally learned how to fold a fitted sheet and that was a proud moment

I am too, and I’d like to think there isn’t, but sadly, it’s true.

Aren’t the Bush’s originally from Connecticut? W is the only Bush who can pull off the folksy accent.

Especially since BLM protestors were shot by white supremacists in Minneapolis like, not even a week ago! God this woman suckkkkkkkks.

Jesus, Carly. What are you willing to say? What are you willing to espouse? Do you have any soul left at all?

To my knowledge BLM has never shot up anywhere or killed anyone. When I was interviewing for a job for an organization that works with abortion we had to meet at an undisclosed location for safety reasons. I had to sign that I wouldn’t tell anyone where we met. Anti-choice fuck nuts have killed and bombed us. They

Rape fantasies have nothing to do with actual rape. Rape fantasies are a way for women, who are pressured by society to be “good” and “nice” and not be “slutty”. Rape fantasy is a way to place themselves in sexual acts that they may desire to do but are “good girls” who “don’t do that sort of thing”. It’s a way of

i would be suspicious of any guy that wanted to simulate rape. i make no apologies for that and if it makes me judgmental or a bad feminist or whatever then i can totally live with that.

OK well don’t be surprised when the guy who fantasizes about raping crosses a boundary in real life.

Nope. Some kinks should be shamed. Pedophilia? Animal crushing?

Women who have fantasies about being raped: fine. That doesn’t actually harm anyone. It’s men who fantasize about raping who raise my hackles and any guy who gets hard when he thinks about, simulates or actually rapes a woman is threat, imo.

The people criticizing you are self congratulatory, libfem idiots. They are so ideologically confused that they think in order to be a feminist you have to endorse porn that sells rape fantasies to men. You’re obviously not being sex negative. You’re being rape negative and rape culture negative. Why the fuck wouldn’t

we can’t just blithely accept the idea that all women have come to BDSM and rape fantasies in healthy, non-damaging ways

yes, but you also must acknowledge that lots of rapists fantasise about rape and enjoy rape-simulation porn before moving on to the real thing. it’s been studied. ted bundy liked that kind of porn, and look where he ended up. i’m not saying every guy that is into that stuff is going to move on to actual rape when

Please remember that kink shaming is not okay

Having a problem with porn that exists to satisfy men’s rape fantasies doesn’t make you sex negative, any more than you being okay with it makes you the enlightened feminist scholar you think it does.

except that many men convicted of serial rape when surveyed admit that they enjoy rape-simulation porn. there is definitely a connection between guys that consume rape simulation porn and actual rapists. i’m not saying every guy who likes rape porn is a rapist—but some of them definitely are.

Uh huh. And what about the dudes who jerk off to rape simulating porn? Are they sex positive feminists too?

Only on a site such as this would someone say that rape porn is not a part of rape culture.

There are a lot of men out there. And I don’t know most of them, but it seems pretty damn unlikely that there are nearly three and a half billion rapists just walking around like it’s normal. I think it’s time to climb down from the outrage pony. It’s had a long day and is very tired. There is nothing to be gained by