It's not about using foreign languages correctly, it's about jokingly using American/British slang popularized around WWI. The "de" is cut and sometimes it's even spelled "toot sweet."

What a surprise hiring people right for the job, gives better returns than hiring people because they have a dick.

I'm terrified of being mistaken for "that guy" so the ironclad rule is:

I had a guy continually hit on me at my (former) gym for months on end. Despite the fact that I never made eye contact or replied. Finally, I guess it was enough for him, he said,

Of course this isn't a real story until some butthurt mra makes it about male oppression somehow.

Where was the guy body-shaming in this?

random troll is random.

Please don't ignore red flags. And never, EVER settle. He's counting on that, believe me. You deserve better.

"What kind of milk in your latte?"

You realize virtually none of us would have husbands or boyfriends, right?

"Can I get a caffe' latte, please?"

"When Rosa Parks said she didn't give up her bus seat because she was tired, she meant that she was tired of being treated like a second-class citizen, not that she was physically exhausted. This is clear in the full context of her statement. The idea that she was just a quiet lady…

That's a serious Red Flag.

How Starbucks thought this was gonna go.

My ex-husband used to do this to me, and what made it worse was that it was usually about things within my field of expertise and not his. In college (BEFORE we were married, so maybe this should have been a red flag of some kind...) I was doing my senior thesis on early Christian Gnosticism, and was having a…

I've mostly experienced this in work settings. The most frustrating part is if you point it out - that a woman had that idea first, for example - you soon gain the reputation of not being a team player, even when the team is dysfunctional. I once got a lecture about how I should interrupt less, while I could never…

Traditionally, a woman, as a man's possession, is to be pure and moral, because his moral value is largely externalized, and vested in her. To be deemed moral she is to honor her husband, take care of others, and respect men's authority generally, etc.

By not realizing that they automatically doubt the person, and thus come up with ways to rationalize the situation in a way that's more psychologically comfortable to them.

If your husband or boyfriend blithely dismisses your opinions, he shouldn't be your husband. He should be your ex husband or ex boyfriend.