I’m a dog owner (two of the bastards) and it astonishes me how many dog owners know ABSOLUTE JACK SHIT ABOUT DOG BEHAVIOR. Before I got my dog I did research into the breed, I studied dog behavior and dog training (Ceasar Milan is an animal abuser, fuck him and anyone who buys into his shit).

Well, a good owner:

I’d gently suggest that this is not the majority of dog owners, but it’s the majority of dog owners that you see (and hear) because of their poor behavior. Those of us who care about our dogs—who take them out a couple of times a day on-leash, stay home and play with them so they don’t get bored/noisy/destructive,…

This is why I won’t take my dogs to dog parks. Too many people don’t understand their dogs, don’t train their dogs, don’t watch their dogs, and think their dogs are awesome when really they’re little assholes that are pissing off all of the other dogs.

I have two dogs, and I completely agree with your very reasonable demands.

I’ll chime in with the other dog owners: your list of demands is eminently reasonable.

Oh hey a Not All Men.

It must be hard to type, what with your Googling fingers being broken and all.

lolz. WOC, esp Black women, have been writing books and articles about this issue for decades and decades.

Rose McGowan was on The View today and said one of the most powerful things about rape victims in the most powerful way I’ve heard it voiced “The only perfect rape victim is a dead one and that’s a fact.” One of the reasons no one believed me or gave a shit because I wasn’t “acting” like a rape victim “should” act.…

We’re looking to define Ansari’s behavior in concrete terms: rape, sexual harassment, groping, blackmail, etc. The problem is his behavior lies in limbo between a specific crime and accepted social behavior.

“She will probably be more thankful for the $4 than I will miss it” is a fantastic guiding principle.

My now-wife and I started a joint account when we moved in together. Each of us has his own bank account where salaries go in. Each of us moves an agreed amount in the joint account automatically every month. The joint account pays all shared expenses: rent (now mortgage), food, holidays, etc. Any extra goes into a…

I was really confused by that omission, too.

I hope this shit gets smashed over and over and over again. The school’s attempt to sanitize the situation and turn it into some optimistic bullshit is disgusting. Women don’t need to be memorialized, worshipped, turned into super heroes or pillars of strength they need to not be fucking raped, beaten or killed. Fuck…

I’ve started to not move out of the way when I’m walking in the sort of designated path that I should be walking even though the person in front of me knows they are about to be in my way. The amount of shocked looks and befuddlement when I don’t move and either they have to move or they bump into me would be…

All of this and then some. I believe Damon wrote a piece on this before, but I will NOT move over when walking on the sidewalk and a gaggle of Beckies decides to refuse to form a line, when clearly they see someone else is walking. I cut through that shit like I’m playing Red Rover. No look-backs, no apologies.

I’m a black guy who’s lived in San Francisco since 2000.

The Venn diagram of people who do this and people who tip poorly is a perfect circle.

When I was a waitress it only bothered me if you wanted extra pacts of sugar and 10 lemons to make lemonade. I hate those people.