I don’t think he’s saying you shouldn’t use the service, but that it’s deeply shitty to tip poorly when you do, even if you order something cheap. If you’re making someone go out in a blizzard, you should tip very well, no matter how cheap your order is.

There’s nothing wrong with either approach. Really just personal preference of both parties. Plus, there will be plenty of time for conversation on the actual date. Don’t be a luddite.

We’re also not seeing _her_ side of the story. We’re getting the complaints from a guy who admits to be suffering from jealousy. For all we know, this guy is tailoring the story in hopes of getting advice which reinforces how right he is and how terrible his girlfriend is being.

She didn’t ‘betray’ you because you weren’t actually together.

It’s the part about the girlfriend having to re-assess her values and integrity that strikes me as being ‘off’ about the first one.

Big streamers/youtubers have fan meet-ups outside of conventions all the damn time. This guy is freaking out without having any proof at all. Hell, she trusted her bf enough to tell him about the creepy underwear guy (and her declining him) in the first place. She doesn’t need to tell him about every time she meets a…

Or if you can somehow find the money and are okay with the house being a little dirty from time to time, hire that shit out (we decided to stop eating out so we could find the money to have a guy come clean the house every third week or so). We still split things like cooking and dishes, but not having to clean…

No but I’m kind of glad they did it because it makes the discrimination obvious for all to see. They could have not specified that in the ad and then just gone ahead and hired a tall, white woman anyway and no one would know they were only looking at white applicants whereas now it’s clear they are specifically ruling…

It’s also just a stupid thing to put in a call for this type of role. If there’s anything midwesterners are good at, it’s hiding their biases and coming up with other justifications for racism. Have a casting call for all races— and THEN hire the white one!

I very nearly ended my comment with “this website is only really useful if you want to make sure the white people you meet are as racist as you”.

This is what makes no sense to me: men, if you want to fuck us and don't want to wear a condom, you should be all about us having access to reproductive services. Seems like a simple, logical conclusion to me.

No, it’s just because for every 100% a man’s poll gets, a woman’s poll only earns 76%.

I think the Potter stories told in the books are over. If Rowling wrote another sequel and in that new sequel, Hermione was suddenly a black woman even though she was white previously, that would be weird. But this is a play, so the format is different- it’s the same universe but it’s in someone else’s hands so I…

Ray is the character I made up so I could play Star Wars with my brother and his friends because my friend always played Leia.

I read an article (on here?) talking about how it may be better to talk earlier on about a pregnancy rather than the “safe” zone of three months gestation. That way if you miscarry, people can really sympathize with you and give you the support you need. I’ve been thinking about that a lot lately.

I do not want to drink wine out of a straw.

What? Those uniforms are white and gold.

I was going to say:

And then when your husband leaves you with the five kids he said he wanted, you’ll easily be able to jump back into the workforce. It's foolproof!

Depending on where you are a nanny service might be less expensive than an actual day care center when multiple children are involved.