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You’re not being “gaslit.” You’re being disagreed with. Please learn the difference.  

So amazing — thanks for sharing it!

Yeah — I mean, 24 is young but it’s not 16. I made choices at 24 that I regret, but also made some good ones. I’ve dated men who were higher up than me at jobs. I flirted right back. I knew what I was doing. We’re friendly still. I wasn’t in it for promotions or more money, I just liked them and thought they were

Not trolling, real question: If I want to sleep with my boss, can I? Or do I not really want to, I just think I do?

I’m worried stories like this that are attached to real stories of harassment and assault are making us cross into “see, women don’t know how to think for themselves or make good decisions.” Which is bad for everyone.

“Kid stuff” like bathtime, dinner time, books time isn’t fun for me. If you genuinely need help, I’m happy to help, but please don’t invite me over as if your kid’s nightly routine is the main attraction for the evening. I don’t care about watching him eat or flipping through books so he can fall asleep.

I abhor animal cruelty and I eat meat. However, I don’t eat a lot of it because I buy expensive meat from a local grocery store chain that sells meat whose entire supply chain is certified humane. When I can’t or don’t want to buy it; I don’t. I don’t eat fast food. Despite my love of sushi, I don’t eat much of that

This this this this this.

I also wonder if now that a reality show star is the president, people are taking stock of just how much bad reality TV they watch. Maybe there’s a general decline over all; like we’ve reached Peak Reality TV Culture and the downward spiral has begin; in more ways than one. I love me some

The target audience for the Challenge are gym bros who got tired of watching average people win Survivor. They just want to watch muscular 30 year olds slow mo beat each other up in a dirt pit to a dub step soundtrack.

I also enjoy how un-ironically proud of themselves they are when they get these puzzles done in an normal amount of time.

God, Cecile Richards must be so tired of repeating the same information over and over and over and over and over and over.

That is so odd to me. I don’t work in politics and none of my friends do and we’re always, every time we hang out groaning about the latest middle finger Trump and his goons are giving the American people. Although we are all NPR listeners and do live a blue state in an even bluer city, so maybe that’s why.

For someone who claims to not drink, his outrage on twitter always seems five scotches too many to me.

I say this as someone who enjoys being over-served on occasion.

Yeah, I read the book. Didn’t love it, but had high hopes for the show, I thought maybe without so much internal dialogue it would be more interesting. I felt the last half of the episode was just one long montage. Wasn’t a fan.

Also, it would have made more sense for the show to take place in Carmel or Marin with all

If you’re feeling generous a gift card or cash. Otherwise; I think you’re fine. I truly believe half the stuff people get at weddings ends up at a garage sale. Not out of money grubbing greed, but because they realize they didn’t need all that and they don’t have space to put all the “nice” stuff people bought them

I joke that I thought all the tech workers in the south bay get free gyms, showers, yoga and massages at work — if they don’t want to use their fancy and free gyms, can we trade?  

He’s 70 years old, eats like garbage and the only exercise he gets is by forcing himself on unwilling women. Of course he can’t get himself up and down a flight of stairs.

My gym is 24 Hour Fitness and I currently live in the South bay though I have lived in SF and Berkeley. The south bay is the only place in the bay area where I’ve experienced every single location within 15 miles of me being packed at all times, even the “off peak” hours. I’ve been on 9-5 schedule, server schedule,

I also liked Jennifer Aniston in Friends with Money and Cake. She seems like she does the silly rom com roles to pay the bills so she can do the occasional good indie that may or may not be a commercial success. I can get behind that more than someone who can’t do anything remotely silly a la our buddy Leo up there.

re: Dorinda and coke. Notice Luann and Sonja were more matter of fact, like, “hey let’s not talk about coke on cable” while the others were making a thing of it. Ramona and Bethanney have such sticks up their asses about it that my guess is one time Dorinda told them she’s done coke a few times, so she then becomes