Well, just ask one basic thing about their profile and move on? I’m forgetful though and don’t worry if I don’t get a response, haha.

Eh, I dunno, I’d maybe be open to a FWB thing if he was clear from the outset but never said anything to claim he wasn’t interested in dating me. But I should say something to him regardless. Thanks.

Not being FWB? Well, I don’t know if he’ll agree to it anyway (he probably will because his profile kind of sucks/he’s cuter IRL/I wouldn’t have given him a chance if we weren’t 99% matches and I needed someone to do an assignment​ on (it was sort of relevant to our online convo). But if I did it would be a, if I’m…

He’s 24, I’m 23. He’s told me he’s never had a relationship last a year and he believed that girlfriend had Borderline Personality Disorder. Which... I don’t know if she was abd it’s damaged his ability to express things with someone new or he just sucks at being a boyfriend. I figured he was maybe a little shy or…

Well, I was thinking of discussing what had happened this weekend after he’s done with his exam and if he actually wants to date exclusively because I’m not interested in someone who’s not willing to make time for me when I know they can if they tried harder.

You’re not being mean, you’re right. I’ve generally been pretty lax and bad at being things off. I was back on the dating site for like 10 minutes and liked someone’s profile before deactivating​. Which is stupid and shitty of me when I asked for exclusivity in the first place.

Message and star the ones yourself who seem interesting? I’ve had okay luck on OKC, personally. But I live in a large city.

My mom says my problem is that I need to lose weight, despite being around where I should be for BMI. I’m not fit, but I’m definitely not overweight. My mom sucks.

I asked a dude to be exclusive earlier in the week after 2 months of dating. Then he barely texts most of the week. I ask to make plans with him on Wednesday for Sunday, and he has an exam (okay, fair), but also he HAS to spring clean THAT weekend with roommate (who, as far as I know, works a regular M-F job). Like…

Sorry for the delay. I asked to him date exclusively a week ago, and he hasn’t checked since but was before the convo. But yeah, online dating is weird.

I told him I thought it was cute and that I was just having fun playing with it.

Unique Vintage has an annoying return policy though...Modcloth was better in that regard.

My ex had such a small amount of chest hair that he might as well shave it, but he did have a nice happy trail for me to play with. The guy I’m dating now has a decent one, but it’s fairly light. When I was playing with it, he offered to shave it, and I said I just liked messing with it. But I am a bit surprised that…

When I was playing with the chest hair of the guy I’m dating the other day, he asked me if I wanted him to shave it. That’s gotta be practically the ‘I want to get serious’ sign, right? Although his chest hair is not quite of the same caliber as yours, I’m sure.

Fuck, I’m wishing I didn’t end things with my ex (we broke up due to distance), because he was fine with whatever it took to get me off if I wanted to and didn’t have this weird ego complex. Although occasionally he’d try to get me to orgasm twice, which was annoying because I usually didn’t want to. Hopefully he…

It can be depending on the woman. I don’t always orgasm even with a loving ex (issues due to distance, healthy relationship) who knew what I wanted/did what I asked.

Thanks for the heads up. But yeah, I think Jezebel readers don’t give them enough credit because of a few bad eggs.

23 year old who ended a 6 year relationship a few months ago. It’s not worth it if it’s not anyone worth dating in my opinion.

Personally I think Kotaku writers themselves are good about being inclusive, but some of the worst readers ruin things. Like I remember Patricia Hernandez saying once about how much hate mail she was getting for her feminist gamer pieces, so she kind of got stuck just writing about Pokemon.

I know she didn’t back him, but she endorsed Clinton later in the game. She didn’t want to pick a side because she knew she had fans in both camps.