OBVIOUSLY this whole thing is disgusting, but oh do I feel for this girl. It says she's 5'9. I know exactly the feeling of putting on a skirt or a dress or a pair of shorts that seems to be a perfectly normal length on everyone else but looks totally obscene on me because I'm tall.

I bet she amazing advice for battered women, too. "Leave."

Yeah, I don't think this is commentary on forcing yourself to be attracted to someone who you're not attracted to. It's about letting societal pressure bully you out of being attracted to someone who you ARE attracted to.

says the man who tucked W into bed for umpteen years.

I never said "don't use the system." I just asserted that it's sad and frustrating that the system doesn't always work — in this case due to systemic sexism.

And, what is to stop rape from happening again? If people stop raping.

You do understand that proof doesn't always lead to justice, right? That even if you show up to a police station rape kit in hand you're still walking into one big grey area? Proof or not, sexual assault cases are often mishandled.

Louie hit this one on the head. I've dated a lot of heavier girls and I've definitely felt the judgement from other men. The problem isn't that men don't like big girls; it's that men don't like the way other men look at them when they're with big girls. It's a societal issue that Louis illustrates flawlessly. It's…

You do realize it takes years for rape kits to be looked at most of the time?

I REALIZED TOO LATE.

"Dr." Rove. BAhahaha. love it.

No, we're just realistic about the justice system. No one is saying victims *shouldn't* get rape kits done, we're just jaded enough to know that having a rape kit done and calling police does NOT guarantee the rapist will be punished, especially if the rape occurred on a college campus.

Rape is not always violent.

I know what habeas corpus is, clearly. I went to school for criminal justice. It's still absolutely irrelevant to this story because none of this is occuring in a courtroom. The accused are not being detained, or indicted, or punished by the court. That's probably a good percentage of why these lists are popping up in…

I REALIZED TOO LATE.

I really want to live in your world.

Let me break this down for you, brosef:

Yeah! Silly goose, the cops will believe you and the bad guys will be arrested and then we can skip back home to our house on gum drop hill!

As a psychologist, I feel the need to stand up here and say that saying "It's psychology" doesn't make your unsubstantiated claims any more believable.

When it's clear that he's only resisting to date you because you're fat, as it is very clear with Louie, then yes you absolutely should call him out on it.