Yes. Both parties can be abusive. I view cheating as a form of abuse for several reasons. Everything he did is also abuse. My ex was emotionally and verbally abusive to me. I became more emotionally unstable. Some of how I was was also abusive. I’m not proud of it but I also don’t feel very bad about it because…

I’d let the disclosure happen fairly organically in the conversation if you can. Or after some casual talking and admitting that you both like each other, then get into your disclosures. Doesn’t need to be right away. I had some things that I had to disclose before getting serious with my new guy. Severe…

My boyfriend and I tell stuff fairly freely. But we both aren’t the jealous type. And we both know that our last people completely popped any lingering romantic feelings by treating us so badly. I think it works mostly because we had similar experiences. So it’s easy for us to not misinterpret anything. I think it…

If a non-condom form of male birth control was created, would you provide it to patients and advertise that you do?

This would be true for a ton of places. Why not start with ones that advocate for weapons?

I looked you up to say thank you so much!!! I love the Ravenclaw robe. I’m so excited to be able to wear it at Pottercon. You are the best!

One of the brands modcloth uses is Folter Clothing. They might have some critter prints.

I don’t know what is like to be a transgender person but I do fully understand what is like to have to avoid bathrooms and to feel scared at places like school. This is why I am fully in support of transgender individuals being able to choose their bathrooms. If your daughter has already used bathrooms in houses, she…

Phone calls and text only: Food requests mostly. Failed attempts at meeting up with one Hey Vina woman. And a couple texts of a friend wondering why I am not responding on fb messenger followed by my saying that I was video chatting with boyfriend. Months ago it would have been a lot more serious and goofy talks…

Sadly, you are probably correct.

I’m curious about what answers that you will get because I have a similar disability

As a Marylander that despises frednecks, I applaud.

I love this documentary! It is a great time of year for it too.

I'm normally anti-gmo because I think most of them are modified for resistance to pesticides. With the reasoning behind this one though, it might be acceptable to me. This makes it really funny to me that this is one that any fast food company would reject. Also, I agree that antibiotic resistance should get more…

I agree. Especially with disease, I think that they could covertly be more helpful. We have herbal remedies, new age tactics for diseases, and such that could be great camouflage for an actual magical cure. But they can't be bothered.

This is a real question. What can good intention white people actually do? I try sometimes to join the fight but often I am not sure how to other than calling out racism, signing petitions, and recommending books that might educate people. But it often seems like it barely makes a dent in our horrid society. Any…

I read a Salon.com article about this topic and it reached the conclusion that maybe OSC is Peter instead of Ender. It is interesting to ponder if that , akes the disconnect make sense. Although, I can't recall Peter really being homophobic just really power hungry. It has been awhile since I read all of the books,…

With the last letter, I cannot personally say anything about race but I can with disability. I have often struggled with my own depression with being disabled, dependant, and lonely. If the letter writer is reading this, know that you are not alone with this aspect of things. It is hard to make friends and hard to…

I might be regretting commenting this later but the coming on face is bukake. I did not know cream pie before today though so I was sort of innocent.

I am really pale white and my boyfriend is a mix of white and black. I don't think we should have kids because I am disabled so I am in purely hypothetical children land too. I agree with what you would do if you ever changed your mind. I think children being exposed to all cultural things while having a safety net…