Fair enough. I’ll read the new link; thank you.

Just imagine if she were Obama’s PR person. And she was standing there saying how the President is going to be hosting a STEM day for children of all races and genders, and that Michelle will be marching in the Pride Parade, and that additional funding will be going to AIDS research, and that our role in the Paris…

She doesn’t always have that look, either, just when she’s doing her job (having Google imaged her to find pics). Maybe it’s the smell of all the bullshit she deals in?

Right. Even if they’re going to go for a joke about her looks, at least go after the constant snotty expression — something that is a choice, and that she can change. She always looks to me like she’s suffering from a bad case of diarrhea, but I’m pretty sure it’s just a side effect of the evil.

The thing is though, when you fat-shame Sarah Huckabee Sanders, you’re not *just* fat-shaming Sarah Huckabee Sanders. You’re trashing the millions of women who look just like her and you’re kidding yourself if you don’t think they hear this shit and don’t take it as a personal blow. It’s no different than people who…

Every time we comment or joke about someone’s appearance — when that has little or nothing to do with their job — we are A) being fucking shitty and B) taking away focus from the real issues : that they’re bad at their job, or just a trash person in general. I don’t care what SHS looks like. I care that she’s an inept…

I’ve never laughed at anything Chelsea Handler said. Never. I watched her youtube clip of going to a wedding in India... just more proof that she’s a racist, wilfully ignorant ass.

I don’t worry about Sanders’ self-esteem. What I worry about is the message it sends to others, particularly young girls: “everyone knows that being fat is a worse crime than defending a racist”. Meaning if you are a nice girl who happens to be fat the message is you should be ashamed of yourself, because the person…

I’m not replying to mean things, or to fat-shaming. She’s bustier, and she has a chin that makes her face look heavier than the rest of her body. She stands behind a podium. This woman is odious, but not because of her looks or her weight, but because of her politics. Because she supports this administration. The…

Seems more like face-shaming than body-shaming.

I clicked on it. I suffered through it. It wasn’t funny.

I don’t like that the hug seems to have replaced the handshake, especially professionally. I ALWAYS duck out of the way of coworkers or aspiring coworkers* who try to hug me and offer my hand to shake.

If you don’t want to break up, then my advice is don’t. May is a long time from now and a lot could change by then, especially since it doesn’t sound like either of your situations are set in stone at the moment.

Along the lines of the other commenters, really follow the fantasy through. Think through getting together, ruining your marriages, having unbearable awkwardness at work, and getting to the point where the attraction isn’t even there anymore.

It usually doesn’t work out, frand, which you seem to know. But if you’re not ready to break up, you needn’t. Sometimes it’s easiest to schedule a talk a month out—put a date and a time in both of your calendars—and Skype or call specifically to talk about if you want to keep dating long distance. If you do want to,…

Treat all women like The Rock! Do not hug unless invited. Although I bet the Rock gives great hugs.

Go fuck yourself. Seriously, only fuck yourself if you’re such an inept dickhead that you need a fucking instruction list to interact with women when you don’t need it for anyone or anything else.

Bullshit. 99% of men know when they are crossing the line. Since when do we have to set up the entire world for the tiny percentage who are atypical? BTW, Conyers, Ailes, Trump, Moore, Laure nor any other creep recently outed is on the Autism Spectrum. They are just jackasses taking advantage of powerful positions to…

Oh, honey, it’s all about The Benjamins. Gawker Media Group used to be owned by one guy, who made the editorial and business decisions himself, with the assistance of sub-editors and business managers and the like. Then Valleywag, which was before my time here, made some rude remarks about an American Oligarch (they…

If I have to touch someone who’s not a family member on purpose I’m going for a handshake. Why greetings and introductions must involve physical contact for some people baffles me. None of us are ghosts.