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I didn't (and don't) get tattoos to individuate myself. I get tattoos to reclaim a body that's been shit on for most of my life (not literally. Not down with the poo play but to each their own) through fat shaming, sexual harassment, and rape. I get tattoos because they help me to love my body rather than hate it,

Yes, because all people with tattoos get the based only on how others will perceive them and not for any personal reason what so ever.

22 year olds shouldn't have full sleeves. Where the fuck do you find that kind of money at that age?

Dogs are loyal. Dogs are loving. Dogs are unconditional.Dogs will never abandon you.

Ok, so obviously I had to look up this book on Goodreads, right? Turns out, the BOOK is a YA book, but for whatever reason, this movie has aged up the main character (prom dress turns into wedding dress). Oh boy. That just makes it worse. It's one thing for a story about a teenage girl who does stupid things & needs

Her biggest problem besides choosing the wrong guys, Bailey maintains, is that she consistently tries to transform herself into the perfect fit for each new man rather than just being herself

In her book, she said something about always being cast as an obese woman or a lesbian or an obese lesbian. Not that there's anything wrong with being one of those three things, but when you're not, it's gotta get old after a while.

I very well might spill hot coffee over feet like that!

I'm pretty sure it's a felony to show porn to minors, actually. I work in a library and the never-ending debate on what should be done when patrons use our computers for their viewing pleasure always includes a lot of hand wringing about freedom of information and speech vs legal issues from a pissed off third party.

"Found a nice girl for you today, son. No previous owners. Checked under the hood and all the parts are in excellent working condition."

True story time! My first visit to the gyn started with an interview about my sexual history in his office. I told him I had none. He interrogated me further, discussing everything that sex could mean, and I said, really... no. Then he did the exam, announced that he believed me, and asked me if he could introduce me

Daughter of an OB/GYN here...when asked, my dad says he got into it because you aren't the bearer of bad news, but you still get to do some pretty complicated surgeries. It's intellectually engaging but also you're a pretty positive force in someone's life. If you find something that's not quite right, you can fix it,

It could be that male obgyns are aware that women are more comfortable going to female obgyns and that theyre already on a short leash when it comes to possible disatisfaction/mistrust. They could be compensating for that.

So out of my med school class, we had exactly ONE guy go into OB/GYN and it was because his father and grandfather were both obstetricians.

Am I the only person who feels really uncomfortable seeing a male OBGYN? I know it's silly, but it really sends me into a tail spin. When my old female OBGYN moved away, her clinic just sort of divvied up all her patients among the remaining doctors and I got stuck with a male doctor. I just quit going and let my

I'm surprised and very disappointed that you didn't note how few of the pictures feature older women, fat women, and women of color. This isn't really a celebration of all butts (as much as I'd love one of those). What a bizarrely limited selection of humans!

That was cool and all, but I still would have preferred a bit more variety among butts. They basically had three kinds of butts and they were all still fairly conventionally appealing looking. Even the biggest butts on display weren't all that large imo. :\

Can we just get ModCloth to start making stand alone plus sized stores? Please? I want to go try on some jeans that don't wear out in like 3 months because Lane Bryant. I am so so sick of Lane Bryant, and so unable to shop anywhere else. I know every other plus size lady feels me here.

Really? It's giving me some sort of 'someone is strangling' her vibe. It feels (to me) like a bad choice given the subject matter.