I spent two years in an abusive relationship and that was literally my thought process... I wouldn’t call it abuse because he didn’t hit me. He alienated me from my family, controlled everything about my life including what I wore, who I talked to, what I ate and how much, he forced me to have sex or perform sexual…

I am, thank you, and hugs to you as well. <3

If you think this woman DIDN’T go through that thought process, you’re being willfully ignorant in favor of staying on your high horse. Have fun up there, I hear it’s really sad and lonely being so judgmental.

Pretending that you have any idea what you’d do in this situation is like claiming you know exactly what you’d grab if your house was on fire. You don’t, and you never will until it happens to you. You can know who you want to be in this situation but that’s not always how reality is going to play out. You were not…