Just add “I’ve informed Netflix that I will not agree to future seasons of AD with Tambor, no matter my personal relationship. My focus should be on doing what I can to ensure a safe workplace for the women I work with, and not easing the conscience of a man who has admittedly done wrong. Removing him from the set is…

And here’s another take on it: Why did this learning opportunity come at Jessica Walter’s expense? Why couldn’t he just look at #metoo, which has been all over the news, looked at what Tambour is accused of doing, TO HIS OWN COWORKER, and say, “Hey, I’ve seen this in action, and it’s really shitty. We shouldn’t be…

Your original comment was perfectly reasonable and likely true. Clearly you touched a nerve with a bevy of trolls, though. I applaud you for having the patience to respond to them.

Actually, learning to swiftly discern truth from bullshit has made my life a lot brighter. My community went through its own MeToo reckoning, and as a sexual assault and abuse victim’s advocate and appointed community guardian, I’ve borne witness to all the denials and all the apologies. Of the enablers who`pen open…

West Coaster here who can confirm: We don’t like conflict. :-(

when do women get to stop being some dudes learning experience and get to be real people????

Here is what I want, a plan for him to do differently moving forward. And then I want to see evidence of him doing differently moving forward. Apologies mean nothing without changed behaviour, and no one is required to accept or think well of another person’s apology.

Yeahhh... not even close to a decent apology.

Going and listening to that segment of the interview where Walters is in tears... gut punch.

Don’t interrupt.

Michael: I sound like I’m condoning yelling at work. I do not.

“I’m sorry that I got called out on being an asshole and that I forgot to not be an asshole for a few minutes during an interview. Also, I am sorry for the time I got caught cheating on my girlfriend. Not the cheating part, that was great, the getting caught part sucked, though. I am also sorry for the time I got…

I don’t even think it was a decent apology. He methodically hit all of the talking points but I really don’t think he gets it. He’s great at talking and getting infront of the message but it doesn’t sound like he’ll ever be ready to listen.

Men: doing the bare fucking minimum since about five minutes ago and thinking they should get a Nobel Peace Prize for it.

In fact, I’m horrified that I wasn’t more aware of how this incident affected her.

My generous side says maybe it took hearing himself out loud. To hear the patronising, the mansplaining, the gaslighting.

I was so eager to let Jeffrey know that he was supported in his attempt to learn, grow and apologize that I completely underestimated the feelings of the victim, another person I deeply love.

I don’t know about y’all, but I am so over the “This is a learning moment for me!” lightbulb moment when men get called out on their bullshit.

Michael always thinks he’s the good one...but always proves he is not.

a decent apology but I’m still a little...