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Oh NO somehow I thought it was out this week- dammit, there goes my Friday pla- *preorders RE8*

I am bad at games, but I love a good horror story and I’ve watched playthroughs of all the previous RE games multiple times. I’m tempted to actually buy and play through this one with my partner- but I’m curious if there’s a more casual mode so I don’t end up rage quitting out of frustration?

The story mode in the TLOU

My boss told me about them splitting up while his stepdaughter was in the store, and the 13 year old was like “Oh, isn’t Bill Gates the charity guy?”

And then I shriveled up and died because I am ancient and apparently his rebranding effort worked

Opening night of Breaking Dawn Part 2. I was wellll past my Twihard years, but I went for the shits and giggles and to just watch it as it was meant to be watched- with snuck in wine.

That scene with the battle that wasn’t in the book? Laughing my whole ass off the entire time while middle aged ladies around me were

God, hell yes. Good for her. 

It’s also pretty common to use gender as ...slang? I guess? in queer circles

Example- wow, those glasses are so gender.

I don’t know why it happens, but it does. I also don’t have a way to DEFINE it, it’s just... a way we talk, haha

Non-binary doesn’t necessarily mean you don’t HAVE a gender identity, it just means you

I tried this with my exhusand*, and the same thing happened- he just... didn’t notice. And I eventually gave up, because no amount of conversations we would have would get through to him. Men aren’t conditioned to give a fuck about these things the way women/people raised to be wives and mothers are. And that’s the

I work in a bookstore, and got SO MANY CALLS from people asking if we had the six books in the article. Customers from all over. Obviously, we didn’t, because most of them weren’t widely known anyway. I’ve been talking with some other booksellers about it and it’s just like... who hears “this book is racist and we

Oh my god, the City of Angels soundtrack was FORMATIVE for me, and what led me to finding Sarah and Alanis, and, I can only conclude, my eventual lesbianism.

As a current bookseller, I feel the need to tell you that “The Boy, the Mole, The Fox, and The Horse” (which is a very sweet book) has been the bestseller two holiday seasons in a row.

We talked about turning all the fucked up versions people would ask us for into a drinking game, but realized we didn’t want to die

Hearing other peoples’ stories of what they went through was a huge help to me, as well. There’s two books I highly recommend- “Dear John, I Love Jane” and “Letters from Janeland”. They’re both letters and essays from women who came out later in life. Some stories are of the “it gets better” variety, but some are also

Hey, congratulations. Two years ago today I told my (obv now ex-) husband I was gay, because I couldn’t face another V-Day feeling like a lie.

It was the hardest but best decision I ever made, and I wish you all the strength and joy you need.

Hard same. I came out two years ago this week and the immediate validation from most of my friends was incredible. I *still* cry about it.

Family of origin was another story, but queer folks lean on chosen family for a reason

I’m glad we live in an age where a teen celebrity coming out is met with this much fanfare, as

I, like so many others, hope you keep some form of the “things you may have missed” digest at the end of the day. It’s one of the first things I read when I get home from work.

Love it and I’m here for it but also ...please god I hope they include trans women and don’t fall for the “it dilutes the message” crap the TERFs try to pitch. 

This is absolutely his way of getting his hat in the ring for 2024 and I hate that I have to have that thought already.

I had a Neal Boortz phase from middle school through senior year of high school. I thought he was the coolest, most well spoken and RIGHT person their was.

did this site not mere weeks ago thank lesbians for bringing back the mullet?

And now the white dudes have appropriated it. smh. time for me to change my hair.

Oh, I did the head shaving myself this spring, and touchups for like four months. I'm just growing it out because it's New England and my head was cold.