As a lesbian who’s March “fuck it I’m shaving my head” mood has now grown into a lil mullet.... you're welcome :D

My ex broke up with me the day before lockdown. It was kind of mutual, but she was who I really thought would be IT. And it was impossible make progress for the longest time because I straight up couldn’t do all the things I normally would do after a breakup- see friends, travel, all that

So I shaved my head. Did it…

Generally everything you asked about is SUPER subjective and depends on the person but- as a general rule? Trans individuals don’t always “transition” in the way the media portrays, like by taking hormones or getting surgery. Sometimes the act of saying “I’m trans” is enough! Especially for genderqueer folks who…

I run a book club for queer teens, and they are currently LOSING THEIR MINDS. Like. Happy tears and talking about role models and god I am *so glad* they have people like Elliot to look up to.

Yep, DA:I came out right when I got fired from a job I *loved* and while I was enduring a lot of... really awful, life changing bullshit. I was in the worst place I’ve been in my 30 years, and literally being able to say “ok, I have one more quest I have to do today” was how I got out of bed some mornings.

I love that…

Ok, I'd actually buy that 

I can't take my girlfriend home for the holidays because there's a pandemic. Chill. 

Look, as a lesbian who can’t bring her girlfriend home for the holidays, I am absolutely being pandered to. And I am HERE for it. I plan on sobbing my eyes out and watching this like... as many times as possible this year.

Also, Tegan and Sara wrote a Christmas song for the soundtrack.

People on the internet are…

Tonight has the same vibes as like.. whatever the opposite of Christmas Eve is.

Getting tacos from my favorite local place, and probably splitting a gummy with my roommate for dessert

I want to go to bed as early as possible. 

Spending Tuesday night playing videogames so my hands are occupied and I’m not tempted to doomscroll, and I have Wednesday off work (normal scheduling, not because of the election) and plan on hiking if the weather doesn’t suck. Maine in November can be hard, so if it’s too cold, my long distance girlfriend and I are…

Mr. Caputo said: “I’m in, Santa, if you’re in.”

I’m really wondering if the editing is TRYING to make us hate her so that we’re relieved when she eventually bails early.

Also, I want Joe for the next Bachelor. He seems like a sweetheart.

I really love this game. It’s about all I have the mental space for right now- bright colors, short rounds, run from point A to B in various ways, make a silly looking bean. It’s so easy to just pop it on for 10 minutes to wind down when I get home, or on a weekend when I can’t focus on reading or an RPG. 

By which he means, he and his ever-rotating gaggle of friends have been LARPing Pokémon in the playground/classroom/lunch line…

I am absolutely having a gin and tonic later in honor of your grandmother. May we all have as many stories for our grandchildren to tell

oh my god that’s one of my friends and I legit choked on my pasta. THANK YOU for this laugh

I know this was absolutely intended rhetorically, but in case someone is actually curious- I’m a bookseller in a mid-sized city in Maine, and I swear almost every single copy we’ve sold of these books have gone to older white men and women. Like, retired doctors and teachers that regularly pick up the latest Erik…

University of Maine announce today that three students (two off-campus, one in a frat) have tested positive. They’re still planning to continue with campus move in next week.

Maine has been so, so good for the bulk of the virus and I’m pretty sure my area is about to get absolutely wrecked. 

This is so weirdly wholesome.