'And then I put on my wizard hat.'

You are allowed to be honest, but the other person is also allowed to explain to you why what you have said is hurtful and insensitive. That's not sugarcoating it, it's being considerate and compassionate to another person. It's taking into account that what one says to another person may actually hurt them.

Ahh murder hands, I have them so often. I am making light of it, but I feel for you.

1. Are you are troll? If so, I hope you got your laugh or whatever it is that you need.

Not sure who that's directed at. Or the context. But I have lot's of empathy, but I do take offense when people can't accept that other people's bodies are different. Or suggest that because I am different my system is wrong.

There are so many offensive and wrong things in that sentence, but thanks for basically calling my body wrong. I'll try harder to not have a genetic disorder.

I like OB and kotex. I love the Diva cup, but even months after surgery it hurts to much to put in. I joked that tampax (14 years ago) was like the Captain Crunch of tampons: Captain Crunch cuts your mouth and tampax, well you get the picture.

I had fibroids and my blood doesn't clot fast enough. (I'm no doctor), but for me it was a strange mix of it being too fast and too much. Sometimes one or the other. And there seemed to be a period when OB tampons just didn't seem to absorb quick enough. I use to wear an adult diaper, a menstrual cup and sleep on a…

:( /hugs if you want them. My record for a tampon was 2 minutes. I totally feel for you. It's awful stuff.

Considering I use to bleed 20 days in a 28 day cycle and lose 10%+ of my blood volume. I am allowed to hate my period because it was slowly killing me and causing me ministrokes. My uterus is a hell cavern devoted to growing fibroids. Natural or not, patriarchy or not, people are very much allowed to experience…

lol. At least he got it for you ^_^ I use to beg the Ex to kill me to put me out of my misery. The he's be like "let's go to the gym or on a 2 hour walk." then I'd say "no, I hurt too much and can't be far from a toilet." Him "No, you aren't. You just NEVER want to do anything with me." I stayed in that…

I've said it once and I'll say it again. When I'm in horrible pain there is no fucking way I am sympathizing with you because the cashier looked at you cock-eye. I don't give a shit, I just want to curl up and die. If that's PMS, so be it.

Most appropriate use of Clint Eastwood ever.

Sounds like you had a good doctor, like my first one. My first ob-gyn was amazing but she didn't want to perform a hysterectomy on a 29 year old. So I met two of her terrible colleagues and their awful residents/fellows. I was mislead the entire time, had the wrong tests performed on me, and was teased in the…

I like your style. I will use a similar tactic.

o.O Wow... just.... What?... That is horrible. ya, people are stupid.

I had a pretty horrible experience with mine, and have decided to avoid ob-gyns until they believe the words that come out of my mouth. That and a lot of therapy, because avoiding doctors is bad.

Did you also find it weird when they said 'We delivered the fibroid". Dude, it's not a baby, you didn't deliver shit, you…

In my humble experience, when people haven't struggled or experienced something they are exceptionally insensitive and utterly stupid about it.

For example: Recently, I had surgery to remove part of my uterus because of fibroids, and people still tell me how far behind I am in child making. They are aware I had part…

I've always been a bit confused by committed couples that don't want children and yet have consistent unprotected sex. (Once in awhile I get it, you forgot, were drunk got caught in the moment or whatever) but I had this friend in grad school who still practiced the pull out method with her husband. Every late period…

I am a shy person, admittedly insecure in the sense I think no one will want to talk to me because I am boring. So...