I think it also incredibly screwed up how many women are told that their rape fantasies aren’t legit or that they are somehow broken for having those desires.

I’m a very active, vocal feminist in a committed, egalitrain relationship. When it comes to sex, I like the play of power dynamics. A lot. I have no doubt those…

It’s funny how things start off with “this fantasy is caused by patriarchal indoctrination” and end with “it’s absurd to say that culture is totally irrelevant.” I’d imagine that people would be more open to discussing what they get out of their kinks and where they think it comes from if the discussion didn’t start…

One’s sexuality and one’s kinks aren’t affected by culture the way you think they are. The women who have rape fantasies don’t have them because patriarchal culture has pushed those fantasies onto them.