I can't actually swim so I will never know firsthand, but those olympians all ware their speedos pretty low too, so i guess the answer is pretty low and trim those pubes. I don't know what you did with your underwear, but if you had to /do/ something to them, then clearly they were never cut to be worn that way. …

ALSO I present as evidence British Olympic Diver Tom Daly and his speedo

yes, they're called low-rise pants/trunks/whatever. As a gay man, I am a fan of these

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good diet so as not to have perpetual mudbutt at the very least. not doing it when you have to go to the bathroom (no shit! got my chance to be punny! :-D )and optionally anal douching. Not requisite, but it will make you pornstar clean

clearly you read NOTHING I wrote and cherrypicked sections to critique. You don't HAVE to douche, it just means you'll be cleaner. You don't HAVE to be regular to have anal sex, just mature enough to recognize that shit happens. Same applies for girls receiving anal. All our asses work alike, men have their G-spot…

sorry for all the edits to my post. Its really 1 part a little guidance, 1 part trying it out and figuring out what works for your body. bottom line is you gotta know when you got something going on in there and when you don't. Kinda like menstruation. you can plan sex around it, or you can just do it and be…

well assuming you don't have constant mudbutt from a poor, fat-heavy diet and you're not doing it right before or after pooping, you can be pornstar clean by douching and showering. In my experience, douching give me a few hours of guaranteed shit-free bottoming (not that I have to douche every time, it just…

that means you're doing it right. People who don't follow common sense and do it right before they have to go or right after they do end up shitty.

seconding this post. Stimulating it is feels like you're about to ejaculate except stronger, and then when you do holy shit does it feel good and it goes on an on and on

add-on to the above: he shouldn't have his sexuality questioned either just because he enjoys a "gay" sex act, even if he does it exclusively with women

this whole what genitals are "made for" bullshit is what homophobic preachers yell and scream about. The only thing they are "made for" is pleasure, however you use them. Gay men and women have been using them in ways that they weren't "made for", yet we still have active and enjoyable sex lives

it doesn't have to be just an "out hole". Its quite capable of being an in hole if you drop the whole just-an-out-hole attitude towards it. Do yourself a favor and buy a prostate toy, a dildo specifically for men to stimulate the prostate, and do some experimenting

might as well get used to it now. When you're 50+, a doctor's going to be feeling up there anyway and it might as well feel good

as the old gay saying goes: "shit happens!" There are ways to mitigate and avoid all of that mainly by adjusting your diet so that you are regular, knowing your body, and a little bit of prep beforehand.

there's an NPR app for that

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