Should you tell your girlfriend? Um… how about no? All telling any of this will do will hurt her, for no purpose.

Came here to say this. Thanks for raising awareness - so glad this is the top comment.

Yes...I wish there would be more discussion of this aspect. Many’s the time I would’ve been in the mood and/or stayed in the mood had the dude not gotten so damn forceful so damn quickly. A real mood-killer only when I was younger I didn’t know how to say what a mood-killer it was and make it stick. Not sure that…

I read this totally differently - I thought she was basically saying, I wanted to have casual sex with him, but only after I calmed down, and after he did something to assure me he noticed and cared about about my boundaries. After he did that I would feel safe enough to have the casual sex I wanted to have with him,…

This piece is unreal. I’ve been looking for Jez’s take on this for over 24 hours. They haven’t covered it at all except to say that Babe did it badly. Way to have those tough conversations, Jez

Non-verbal burns are valid! See my 2 high school stories!

Being British and studying in the US, I acquired the rather unimaginative nickname ‘England’. I was sitting in my dorm room with my new boyfriend and a (finger)blast from the past, and the blast from the past casually mentions that we banged, and looks to the boyfriend for a reaction. Boyfriend’s jaw twitches a…

um hey I might need to meet your friend for, um, research purposes. Yes.

Who knew that cats liked pizza?

Man children. Passive aggressive. Unable to deal in actual adult conversations. Revenge-driven. Fucking dicks. So glad to be rid of him and his family.

So gross. [barfing.gif]

See....I'd have broken the TV. And had the dog poop on the bed. But I'm super into revenge.

Ugh. Sorry that happened to you. Why do they always deny it if they aren't into it anymore? Is it a control thing?
My ex acted like I was the love of his life until I proved that I knew what he'd been doing. Then it was just this complete turnaround where he actually said he'd never intended to date me as long as he…

Did he by any chance hate mondays?

Nice turn of phrase there at the end.

OMG that writing sample detail at the end is the best worst thing I've ever heard.

I had a hair color appointment go wrong this week. While I don't especially care (hair grows back, y'all!), my husband was trying to be funny and told me I looked even more like our Rottweiler than usual.

lol everything is a choice. How long has slavery been a part of human life?

Is there a purely logical and not emotional argument for the rights of humans being incomparable to the rights of other animals?

You're kinda proving the Doc's point about Oneitis being a cover-up for scarcity mentality.