even as that, is the other person trying to make monogamy work, they they trying to change the person. I came from a divorced family and as civil as they tried to keep it, most people cant walk through life being hyper self aware, they always blame the other for the reasons things fell apart. As I got older, I learned…

Got a bit off topic, Jerry is so concerned with himself that he doesn't give Beth the attention she needs. Listen to his language talking about them "my wife, my son, my father in law" he thinks he's the hero of every story, in doing so he believes his problems come first

Divorce is rarely one persons fault, even in the case of cheating there's and underlining problem in the marriage to drive someone to do it. The othe side is, it's always fair, Louis CK once said "it would be awful if your marriage was going great, then you get a divorce but that's happened 0 times" it depends on…