We never intended to marry, we only did for child rearing reasons.

I might get flak for this, so don't take it the wrong way, but I feel sorry for people that have to hit the dating world in their late 30's, 40's, or higher. It seems like a lot of the people in that age range are "damaged" in some way that prevented them from having a lasting relationship. They may have odd…

Is 26 to early to advance to the "no bullshit" phase? Because I'm totally ready to advance to the "no bullshit" phase. People in their 20s SUCK. Flaky bastards.

bed frames are a show of maturity. I don't remember having a bed frame during my college years up to about 25. I took someone home in their early thirties and she side eyed my bed. It was then I realized that if I wanted to put on the appearance of being more mature, I needed to step up my bed game. In came a…

Well, we're speaking specifically in the context of older adult dating, not early twenties, fresh out of college. People in their 30s have higher standards for the most part since they're looking for maturity and stability. If a 35 year old woman shows up to a 35 year old man's apartment and sees bean bags and…

But the frame is included with the mattress set? I used my very first paycheck to buy a $400 queen mattress set from Original Mattress Factory (so not very expensive but still a nice bed). (Prior to that, I was sleeping on the floor.) It came with a frame. When I had to replace that bed, it came with with a frame.…

It shows that you give a shit about making the space you live in look at least minimally pleasant, which is something that matters to someone who may be thinking about you as a person who she'd want to live with a few years down the line. Sure, it's an arbitrary cultural norm, but there is a correlation between guys…

So you don't drink coffee, tea, alcohol, or water. And you can't seem to grasp that most people have particular preferences when choosing dating partners, and that those preferences might exclude you from their dating pool. I'm beginning to think that it's not your lack of bed frame that's making people. It want to…

I agree with the bedding thing as well. I have actually said to a guy "You are 27 years old, get a bed frame". To me, it's just a small sign of being grown up and put together. I do my best to make sure my apartment is together, and the person I'm seeing should do the same. To me, it's a sign of taking pride in your…

I mean, I'm only 27 and when I was 24 my opinions were pretty solid, so I wouldn't discount her based on age, but I see what you mean. But yeah, I could see that being a problem.

Some people care about bed frames; others don't. All dating preferences could be seen as silly if you wanted to view them that way, but what it boils down to is that everyone has their own idea about the qualities a potential partner should possess, and if you don't like it then you're free not to date the person just…

Dude, what? Yes, a bed frame so you're more than a foot off the ground. So you're level with your nightstands and lamps. So you don't have to climb up out of bed in the morning you can just swing your legs over the side of the bed. This is such a dumb argument. You could put some bean bags on the floor instead of…

But I avoid furniture because I have moved every one or two years for ten years.

Dear Dudes,

Spend the time you are now using harassing women about their dating preferences on the internet buying a fucking bedframe.

I just like beds. I like furniture, clean clothing, a picture on the wall, sheets that are washed weekly, a toilet that isn't filthy, knowing how to cook a meal that isn't mac and cheese, etc. It's not so much that I have a weird anti-mattress on the floor phobia it's just that the kind of people that don't bother to…

Wait wait, people actually care about bed frames?

nah, it's still good on this side, just different. but at least make sure you have a bed frame

Blount rushed 30 times for 148 yards and three touchdowns in the AFC championship game.

LOL U SAD BRO?

Have I missed something somewhere that said that Dakota Johnson is a raging attention whore bitch monster and Jamie Dornan was forced to act in this movie at gunpoint? Because based on most of the coverage I've seen on this site, that seems to be the case. I get that there was no chemistry, but damn, the spin here…