Yeah, nobody has the patience for reading. If it's a poem, it's fast, but art has the advantage of being immediate. Reading takes too long.

This basically sounds like a variation on the stereotype of women in general not wanting sex after a few [insert time frame here] of marriage. Even if they were at one point banging all over the place, straight women eventually stop wanting to have sex of any kind. Although, that's usually attributed to…

I wonder how knowledgeable Dan is on the topic, given that he's in a relationship (is it open? IDK) and probably doesn't go out and look for random hookups.

I'm confused about the concept of grapefruiting. Is this really a thing? Couldn't you just use your hand in place of the grapefruit? Or is this for women who are okay with sucking dick but not touching dick?

I thought that was cats…

I don't find them gross, really, I just don't think there's anything sexually attractive about them. I'm indifferent. It's kind of like elbow fetishists, completely whatever to me.

Also, I try to do two things at once, sometimes. Like, if I'm watching TV, sometimes I'll draw at the same time. Or I'll work on some textile project (crocheting, or some minor sewing - mostly just sewing buttons back on my husband's shirts) at the same time. I've tried to get myself in the mindset of physical…

I need to do that, too. I keep thinking that organizing my day into a routine would be a good thing. But then I don't do it. And, insert the internet? Yeah, all bets are off.

Yeah, and it doesn't seem like she has any reason for being jealous. I think she even admits that. And even if she IS jealous, BF has a low sex drive - why does she think he's going to have sex with her?

I'm impressed you're able to do that - prioritize the end of the fight. In my experience, most people are so obsessed with being right, or at least getting in the last word, that they can't see past that.

Yes, yes, yes.

I want to read that.

Yeah, I had a particular friend who I *agreed* with that I unfollowed during the election and the pre-election because *every* post was about politics, and like, waaaaay out there politics. I didn't necessarily think he was wrong, I was just tired of hearing about it. I went on hispage every few days to see if he'd…

Are we sure they're fainting and not seizures (the non-shaking kind)? I might be projecting here since I was just recently diagnosed with epilepsy, but maybe an EEG might not be a bad idea since it keeps recurring.

Yeah, I mean not *all* heterosexual, white, cis men in the midwest are Trump supporters - not even all *conservatives* are Trump supporters. I get that she's upset, but this seems like a rather extreme reaction.

Yeah, I never knew how to reply to those people. Yes, it'd be great to hang out with you, but I'm not interested in moving cross-country.

So, funnily enough my husband's best man and my matron of honor are both super-conservative, and we are both pretty darn liberal. Despite this, we manage to get along terrifically by, oh, I don't know, not talking about politics all the time? She can't just change the subject constantly?

We had ours staying on until midnight, and then changed them to go off at 11, because we were worried we were offending our ultra-Orthodox-Jewish neighbors. (even though none of them have said anything about it). Except last night we got home near midnight and saw that other people on our block still had their lights…

Agreed! I mean, I agree with the principles of limited government in general, but Libertarians seem to veer on the side of crazy.

Exactly. It felt like now, (and in 2008 as well), the argument for HRC has been "it's her turn. We should vote for a woman as president!" and less of a stand on her own merits thing. I feel like Obama got the okay from the DNC because "oh, a black guy as president is also okay!" while Bernie didn't because "oh,…