He’s got major issues. But he won’t see it because it has to be her fault.

He is a stalker and can’t see it. If he stopped for two seconds and viewed her as a human being, not as the object of his lustful projections, he’d understand that. He has bigger problems than this one woman. It’s how he sees women, himself, and the social contract.

“No.” is a complete sentence which requires no further explanation on the part of person stating it. Yet American society always expects the person saying it to explain. We particularly expect that of young women in situations like this.