U are ignorant beyond comprehension. Beyond. I don’t think people like you should be banned, as I do not believe in banning, but I would KEEP u away from anybody that needs a real world solution to anything tough like drug addiction, sexual trauma, post traumatic stresd. Your fetish of feeling and emotion mixed in…

Yep. Some people do everything right and their kid turns out to be an asshole, and some people are horrible parents but their kids are great.

this is so true.

I wasn’t suggesting they shouldn’t do that as well — the two are not mutually exclusive — we can do both.

I agree with the idea that we should do that, but people aren’t doing that, and until they do, women need to protect themselves from predatory men who want to do them harm.

Don’t what your issue is. Reading and learning is fun. Even more, it’s important to not be passive in life and know where u stand in terms of knowledge.

Both me and a friend were roofied by a bartender.

I wish there were some way to prevent men doing this,

I realize that it won’t prevent this happening 100% of the time, but I think it’s a sensible safety precaution.

Guys getting insulted by stuff like this drive me crazy. I have had guys been upset that I won’t have sex without a condom without test results because do they “look like someone who isn’t clean?” I have had a guy from a dating site totally go off on my mom and say really mean stuff to her because for their first…

I can’t imagine having a friend drug me, which means I can’t imagine going out with one of my best friend’s and then asking the bartender to watch my drink. First date, I can imagine that, but not with a close friend.

It seems like people like yourself are essentially saying there’s no point in taking precautions because if you’re going to get roofied, you’re going to get roofied. That’s dangerous thinking in my opinion.

No one’s asking you to watch anyone’s drink. Put it behind the bar where customers can’t get to it. That’s really a problem for you? I’ve seen bartenders do that all the time.

So you’re saying bartenders work in collusion with men who roofie women they want to rape? Or are you saying this bartender would slip the woman a roofie and then somehow sneak off from his job and rape her later after it took effect?

Bartenders roofie people too.

This is a pretty good idea.

I wish there were some way to prevent men doing this, but until that happens, if you have to get up from the table and go to the bathroom or something, get up and give your drink to the bartender. It might be inconvenient, but it also might save you from something truly horrific.

Amazing. Big thanks to these women who saw it and stopped it. thanks for helping a stranger. What a shitty “best friend”. Absolutely appalling behavior.

This bitch really thought he was going to get off lightly with just a slap on the wrist, if any punishment at all.