Deep vees are also the bane of my existence. I have no cleavage; low cut shirts just show off my sternum.

But

MONSTERS.

Me too. I spent a good chunk of last weekend watching Grey’s Anatomy (end of season 9/beginning of 10) and ugly-crying, which was really cathartic, actually.

If that’s actually the case, you’re making poor decisions with your money.

Definitely this, although sometimes I use the thumbs up emoji as a low-key passive-aggressive response.

Also a possibility!

I didn’t - it was a sort-of emergency situation, and tbh getting an attorney never even crossed my mind! But even the people who explain the whole service process didn’t tell me, actually.

I imagine one’s experience differs from judge to judge and from court to court, but when I got a temporary restraining order against my ex-boyfriend in Orange County, I wasn’t told about this option either. They told me that I could have the cops serve him or I could have someone not named in the RO serve him, but…

While I do think that the KonMari thing is at least somewhat dependent on one’s individual circumstances and ability, I personally have found minimalism to be incredibly helpful with regard to managing my depression and ADHD.

My aunt is a baker professionally and makes “medicated” baked goods on the side, and exclusively uses cannabis coconut oil for those. It works great. Additionally, the infused coconut oil makes an excellent massage oil for pain relief!

she does, actually!

$10k is a lot of money and I actually would consider NOT getting married if my boyfriend thought that that were a reasonable amount to spend on a fucking party. Jesus.

Genetic predisposition.

As I said previously, it just falls into the category of “pointless overshares” for me. “May have caused” isn’t a good enough reason for me to share information that won’t help them in any way, especially given that my children are likely to have ADHD and/or asthma to begin with.

I didn’t say that they don’t have any culpability, nor did I say that I think 30 years in prison is fair, but he INTENTIONALLY made the decision to put others in a situation that they may not have consented to if they had known that he is HIV+. Which is wrong. People with communicable diseases have a responsibility to…

Oh, yeah, totally, I felt really insulted after I made that comment. Fuck you and your “actual survivors” bullshit.

Fair enough, but I’m still not totally sure why that would be something that would come up, you know?

I think your right to medical privacy ends at the precise moment that your medical history could negatively affect others.

Yeah, and if women didn’t want to get raped, they shouldn’t go out drinking with short skirts on.