You get what you give. If you're putting out vibes that you view women as judge-y creatures, it's only naturally for them to respond with vibes that ask "What the fuck is wrong with that girl?"...which probably makes you feel judged. Because that's what you invited.

This overall is good but I hope it's not a fad and I hope Asians and Latinos can get in on the casting action too. It's very interesting how much more training actors of color, especially women, have to have to "make it" compared to their white counterparts. There appears to be a super high bar set that's not…

Tiffany Pollard (aka New York) is the best thing to come out of Flavor of Love. At least once a day, I think something New York said and hear it in my mind IN HER VOICE. She is hilarious and a star and I wish she were in more things.

THIS. Her music has aged so well. I was jamming to a Missy playlist last week and the vast majority of the songs on it would make just as much of a killing on the charts as they did when they were released.

I see. The director must have told her to ham it up and she misheard him and thought he said "ACT TERRIBLY."

Is Cameron Diaz acting in a totally different movie than Quvenzhane Wallis and Jamie Foxx? Because...she's no bueno in this trailer.

I had a very similar reaction to hearing about her...seeing she was white explained SO much. She's beautiful but she can't rap. I thought she was doing like a digital short for SNL or something.

I've missed your point? That's rich! People can only talk about the privilege of different family planning options if they've personally experienced family planning trauma? And expressing an opinion about why people hold the attitudes they do (IN THIS POST) speaks for them as a group? Good lord.

Plenty of people who conceive biological children end up with kids who are emotionally unstable and have mental health issues despite not neglecting or abusing them. Parenting is super hard and there is a weird narrative around adopted children being abuse and/or neglect victims. I wish we (i.e. society at large) had…

I didn't say they lack awareness, I said talking about privilege is hard and people avoid doing it around personal choices. This is the internet. I did not come up to you, call you, e-mail you, or write you a letter talking about your choices as an individual. I made a comment on an internet post about IVF about the…

Are you serious? That's not what I said at all but instead of asking me what I meant, you go into accusing me of shaming women who seek fertility treatments. The comment I made was not a statement about women who seek fertility treatments but an observation of the way people in this post (and on most posts about IVF)…

OMG, THESE ARE KILLING ME. I will cackle the rest of the day!

Just IVF right now because this article is about IVF...

Yeah, it's weird how so defensive some of the comments are but I guess that's choice feminism is a nutshell: "I chose my choice so therefore no one has the right to ask about the societal implications and forces that influenced that choice!"

Pointing to IVF as a driving cost of healthcare is ridiculous and sexist. The biggest problem with healthcare costs is that it's not a free market, prices aren't transparent, and hospitals have free reign to set them without any price controls. Yes, IVF is expensive, but so is cancer treatment for people who chose to…

Discussing IVF brings up inevitable questions about who has the right to have a child and people don't like to discuss privilege. As a childless young woman who has no desire to have children, I can't imagine the pain of infertility but I can't help but think all the defensiveness around IVF comes from a place of not…

This sandwich could've been on a baguette though. I had to bust out a knife and fork at brunch yesterday because all the ingredients were escaping and the baguette was too thick! Judge not lest ye receive the baguette.

Right? Who cares about having more sex if I'm too tired to enjoy it because I'm doing all the work at work and then all the work at home? I'd rather just have less sex if that means I'll have the energy to enjoy it.

I love the look of Anthropologie's clothing (well, a lot of it) but even on sale, it's soooo expensive for the crappy fabric and a lot of stuff that makes it to sale looks super shopworn. And everything is dry clean/hand wash only. I hate high-maintenance clothing. For a fancy dress, I get it but even their casual…

Right? Mia Farrow is the model of restraint and dignity. I would've flipped my fucking wig and everyone else's within my orbit.