nkotb4ever
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nkotb4ever

Fair enough, but I also think that if you have to consciously make time to enjoy the person and the relationship, the jig is up. You obviously have other priorities, be they career, kids, or just drifting away of interest. No one ever describes dating as "work," and it involves a lot of time, money, energy, and

Not getting married is also an option.

The only reason people used to stay together is because they were legally obligated to. The high divorce rate is a GOOD thing, IMHO. We need to emotionally evolve, be adults, and realize that most luuurve doesn't last 50+ years because it is in fact based on lust and infatuation, human feelings borne of evolution, to

See, I think that's bullshit. I think if it's "work," it's duty, not love. I've been with my partner eight years, and it's not work. "Marriage is hard work" is something people tell themselves to convince themselves that all the pain is worth it. But unhappy, difficult marriage is a waste of your short life. Sure,

Romantic love is a trick of evolution, and marriage is a scam.

I thought that woman on the top left was Mary Lou Retton, then I remembered Mary Lou Retton is old.

I am pretty into the history of this book and film, and I think your comparison with Girls is actually pretty apt, although Mitchell definitely romanticized the "Old South."

"Children are wonderful"

Your personal opinion.

I have been a fan since Say My Name. I LOVE this album. I bought it the night it came out. I like that Beyoncé has remained explicitly feminist (so tired of people, ahem, saying she "came out" as a feminist with this album - have y'all been paying attention AT ALL?). I like that she is exploring women's agency and

Yes.

Read Simone de Beauvoir.

Team Cat.

Ding, ding, ding!

I liked this Shakira better.

You sound too immature to commit to a lifelong legal partnership.

Totally can't tell if the header pic is a runway or a grocery store.