I don't know if you are male or female. If you're male and you are speaking this way to a woman, I'd just have to think — MRA dick. But if you are a woman and you think it's all right to do that? Then you're something even worse. I can also tell you what you're not — you're not able to explain your accusations…

Uh, I love BOTH your user names!!

I normally wouldn't do this — but your husband deserves it. You weren't aghast. You are using the word incorrectly and, well, I know that you would want to use the correct word because your awesome husband deserves it. Aghast means horrified. I am guessing you were stunned, amazed, thrilled, gobsmacked — but…

Do not call me honey. That is demeaning and rude. You can make an accusation — anyone can. What you obviously can't do is back up what you say with with evidence, nor can you tell me how you are qualified to make such an accusation.

Why? Really? If you're going to say it — back it up with some evidence. How did you arrive at this diagnosis — and how are you qualified to?

Oh, I do know that kids in the same family can be completely different. And I do know eugenics was practiced in the US. And I really, really would like to sterilize some people — for example, that woman I know who has nine kids in foster care. Sorry about your sister's illnesses, btw.

She did. She was rude. My post was not mean-spirited. It was sad and angry that this horrible thing happened. I wanted to know how. But you'd better tell me HOW it was mean-spirited, because it wasn't.

Really? Why do you hope I don't have kids? Because I think people who raise a child who murders her sister shouldn't have children? Because I don't let people label me as someone who is blaming single mothers when I am not? Or is there some other cause for this deeply reasoned comment of yours?

No, it was absolutely flipping out. You can say it wasn't. It was. You can feel free to take a break from commenting if you like, or from reading my comments. I will continue to do as I please.

There is nothing wrong with a 14 year old taking over some responsibility. I don't know how much she had put on her. That's the question — well, one of the questions.

I do know that. It's true — you never know. However, wtf is your aunt doing having all those kids? Doesn't she care about the environment. Her carbon footprint will be HUGE. The greenest thing you can do is not have kids.

So do you!

Whatever. I donate money to a group that will pay to permanently sterilize drug addicts, if they want it. Or it will get them long term birth control. I have seen way too many kids in foster care — I knew one kid, his mother had put NINE CHILDREN into foster care. She kept having them! Me, I never did. Never…

I didn't say anything shitty till little miss "oh you're blaming single moms" jumped down my throat. She started it and I smacked her down. She was wrong to accuse me of what she did and I pointed it out, each time she tried to accuse me. My original post — there was nothing mean or bad in it.

I have — at the gym — that's how I know it really is a lot. And yes, your upbringing sounds pretty bad.

She should calm down. WTF, flipping out on me as if I were maligning single mothers when I am asking where the father was? Whatever.

You're pretending to be an idiot who doesn't know what she did — who doesn't know what's happening. That's basically it.

Please, I am not upset. You know I am not upset and you are actually sorry that you didn't upset me. You wanted to because you made some erroneous assumptions about me. That is why you said such stupid things as "So now we are blaming the mother for being a single working mom? What?" when I clearly had asked, "Where…

Um, I think it's pretty obvious in this case that there was a major parenting fail. I am not blaming the absence of a father because I do not know if he was there or not. AGAIN, I direct you to my sentence "Where is the father?" See that? I don't know if he was there — gone — what. And I want to. I DO know the…

No, they need to be sterilized because they had a 14 year old who murdered her 11 year old sister. Clearly — someone's parenting fucked up big time. Stuff like this does NOT come out of nowhere.