Oh — you edited. No! (laughing) NO! I did NOT mean Brown. Why am I laughing like this? Well, the idea of anyone thinking Brown is all right is so ridiculous and I guess it's an uncomfortable subject. Still don't know what you mean about the victim-shaming, though. I am not victim-shaming my friend — could you…

I am NOT talking about Chris Brown. I am talking about a friend of mine, who lost his virginity when he was nine to an 18 year old girl. He's in his 40s. He owns his own business. He's married. He has a son who just graduated college. He has had his ups and downs, like anyone else, but he's doing fine. He has…

They have sex with each other — 8 year olds, I mean. One strange story I did not include was told to me by a friend who was raised on some commune type hippie place by his hippie parents. He told me that when he was 6 he and another 6 year old girl had sex. What is more — he told his parents and his father…

Thank you. I have had various therapists over the years and the ones who were the worst, the most damaging, were the ones who told me how I "should" feel and never listened to how I felt. I had therapists tell me I SHOULD hate my mother or I should this, that, or the other thing. I always wondered who they though…

I disagree. I think it is VERY much about how an individual feels, particularly in very grey areas — like the 11 year old boy who lost his virginity to the 13 year old girl (she was just over a year older than he). In fact, it is TOTALLY about how the victim feels — and if he even feels like a victim. There are no…

I hear what you are saying — think I don't — but this is a strange and unprecedented situation. Do I tell someone, "I think you were raped," when they say, "Well, I have been fine with this for over thirty years"?

Maybe we should respect Chris Brown's interpretation of his own experience. Maybe we shouldn't tell him how he should feel. I know men who have lost their virginity to older (between the ages of 13-18) women when they were 9, 10, and 11.

And this is how stuff gets difficult. Because NONE of my ex-boyfriends who had sex for the first time at age nine, ten, or eleven (all with girls between 13-18) feels he was raped. I asked. They didn't think it affected them negatively at all. They all saw how it could be seen as rape. They didn't experience it…

I want the one that tells you how to get a guy NOT to insist on you marrying him. Do I take this advice and just do it in reverse?

Well, I have a history of dating men who lost their virginity at young ages. No one as young as Chris Brown. He has my guy beat by a year. Yep — I've been with a man who said he lost his virginity at nine. And I have no reason to doubt him. And another who lost it at ten — again — no reason to doubt him. The…

Hypothetical? Heck, I got married in my grandma's backyard and told my bridesmaids to wear whatever they wanted. Oddly enough, they showed up in blue — they didn't consult of anything.

Can I say this? That woman has a really nice figure. I mean — I should be applauding her sense of humor and all that — but I can't help but notice what a lovely figure she has.

Yep. Sociopath. Clearly.

His behavior is the behavior of a sociopath. Normal people with normal compassion don't do things like that. He's sick and you are SOOOOOOO lucky you got away. Remember — sociopaths are notoriously charming.

My sister said the exact same thing when she met him — LOVES him!

I am so stunned. I never thought I could just despise, just LOATHE a stranger THIS MUCH. And I have hated strangers A LOT — just not this much. I hope he dies horribly and soon. No — horribly in a long, drawn-out, dreadful way. Yes. That's what I hope for Max Landis.

What a sociopath he was! You had a lucky escape. I mean — he hurt you, but this guy sounds like he can REALLY HURT someone, you know what I mean?

And you did. And her grandma was probably about your age. Let's see...I have a 14 year old student who has a kid. So, she's a mother at 14. Thus, when her child becomes a mother at 14, she becomes a grandmother at 28. Add six years, that's 34 — yep, you still look younger than you are and you look like that kid's…

It was hers, not mine THANK G-D. And THAT happened long after her time. Still...weird.

My grandmother was from Russia. Well, it was Russia when she left. Then it became the Soviet Union. Then it became Ukraine. So — when asked where she is from — I say...what do I say? Usually just Chernobyl.